YFP 262: How Two Pharmacists Paid Off $250k of Student Loan Debt


How Two Pharmacists Paid Off $250k of Student Loan Debt

Kristen & Nate Hedrick to discuss their journey in paying off $250k of student loan debt, their motivation and why for aggressively paying off the debt, and the role a side hustle and real estate investing played to help them achieve their goal.

About Today’s Guests

Nate and Kristen Hedrick met at Ohio Northern University and were married in 2013. Nate is a pharmacist with Medical Mutual and a real estate agent with Berkshire Hathaway. Kristen is a pharmacist with Bon Secour Mercy Health. Together, they graduated with over $300,000+ in student loan debt. They enjoy visiting National Parks as a family. Today they live in the suburbs of Cleveland, Ohio, with their two daughters, Molly and Lucy, and their rescue dog Lexi.

Episode Summary

How do you go about aggressively paying off a $250,000 student loan debt without feeling overwhelmed? To help answer that question, YFP Co-Founder & CEO, Tim Ulbrich, PharmD, is joined by fellow pharmacists Nate Hedrick, PharmD, and Kristen Hedrick, PharmD, BCACP. The Hedricks tell us how they successfully paid off over $250,000 in student loan debt, their motivation for tackling that debt, the pivotal moment that sparked making repayment a priority, and the role a side hustle and real estate investing played in their journey. After a brief history of Kristen’s background, listeners will hear what motivated the couple to take an aggressive stance on their debt repayments, how a life-changing event and one book altered their financial philosophy, and how the pandemic helped them focus on their strategy. Nate and Kristen share their reasons behind paying their debt off now instead of putting their money toward investments and how they found an additional $3,443 per month to make their goal attainable by reducing expenses and increasing their income. This earnest conversation takes us through the possibilities of working full time, raising a family, making investments, and paying off a huge debt, all at the same time. Nate and Kristen talk about their life after paying off this debt and share some advice for pharmacists who may be struggling with a similar debt situation. 

Key Points From This Episode

  • Kristen’s background, how she ended up in pharmacy, and what she’s doing now.
  • What their student loan debt looked like at its peak. 
  • How student debt can creep up and surprise you. 
  • The initial feelings the couple had towards their debt and their plans to pay it off. 
  • What motivated our guests to come up with an aggressive plan for paying back their debt. 
  • How a life-changing event (and a book) in 2016 changed everything. 
  • The global pandemic as a moment of inspiration.
  • What they had to change in their lives to be able to make the monthly repayments.
  • Paying off debt now versus investing for the future.
  • The way the couple used ‘double motivation’ to reconcile an age-old debate. 
  • How our guests were able to raise a child, invest, and pay off a huge debt at the same time.
  • Nate’s decision to pursue real estate investing and what that meant for their debt repayments. 
  • The approach the couple has taken to make real estate investing work for their family. 
  • Other strategies that helped to pay off the debt aside from cutting expenses and real estate investments. 
  • The benefits of receiving objective, third-party advice. 
  • What life is like now after paying off their massive debt.
  • How paying off the debt helped Nate make an important career decision.
  • Kristen’s advice for the pharmacist struggling with debt. 
  • Nate’s parting words of wisdom.   

Highlights

“That was the worst that it got and, that same month, for what it’s worth, we had a negative net worth of $306,000. We had about 10k to our name and a bunch of debt to add on to that.” — Nate Hedrick, PharmD [0:03:44]

“I had no plan early on until we developed the ‘why’, which was getting our financial house in order so that we could live the way that we wanted to.” — Nate Hedrick, PharmD [0:06:23]

“The expenses were the catalyst, and then it was the extra income side of the equation that really boosted everything to actually make it possible.” — Nate Hedrick, PharmD [0:13:37]

“Spending more time with the kids without having that student loan debt, and being able to do more things and travel more, it feels like it’s definitely paying off in the end, with making some of those sacrifices.” — Kristen Hedrick, PharmD, BCACP [0:17:16] 

“One great thing about real estate investing is even if something happens, you still own a building.” — Kristen Hedrick, PharmD, BCACP [0:22:00]

“Find something that is going to supplement your life that the more effort you put into it, the more reward you get out of it. That is a really great way to set yourself up for success.” — Nate Hedrick, PharmD [0:29:32]

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Episode Transcript

[INTRODUCTION]

[0:00:00.4] TU: Hey everybody, Tim Ulbrich here. Thank you for listening to The YFP Podcast, where each week, we strive to inspire and encourage you on your path towards achieving financial freedom.

This week, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Kristen and Nate Hedrick to discuss their journey of paying off $250,000 of student loan debt. In this show, we discuss their motivation and why, for aggressively paying down the debt. What the pivot moment was that motivated them to make the debt repayment a priority, how they were able to come up with more than $3,000 per month extra to throw towards the loans, and the role a side hustle and real estate investing played in helping them pay down the debt.

Before we jump into the show, I recognize that many listeners may not be aware of what the team at YFP Planning does in working one-on-one with more than 240 households in 40-plus states. YFP Planning offers free only, high-touch financial planning that is customized for the pharmacy professional. 

If you’re interested in learning more about working one-on-one with a certified financial planner may help you achieve your financial goals, you can book a free discovery call at yfpplanning.com. Whether or not YFP Planning’s financial planning services are a good fit for you, know that we appreciate your support of this podcast and our mission to help pharmacists achieve financial freedom.

Okay, let’s jump into my interview with Nate and Kristen Hedrick to learn how and why they aggressively paid off $250,000 in student loan debt.

[INTERVIEW]

[0:01:23.4] TU: Kristen and Nate, welcomed to the show.

[0:01:24.7] NH: Hey Tim, good to be here.

[0:01:26.1] KH: Hi.

[0:01:27.0] TU: So Nate, obviously, you’re a frequent flyer. You’re old news so I’m not even going to spend a whole lot of time focusing on you. Many folks have heard you on the podcast before, whether it’s this show, talking about home buying, whether it’s the Real Estate Investing podcast on Saturday mornings, of course, Nate being the cohost of that show. 

So, we’re going to focus a little bit more on Kristen’s background as we get started, and we’re going to jump into more about your debt-free journey and how ultimately, you guys were able to knock out $250,000 of debt, and what that has meant to you guys personally, to your family, as well as also the financial goals and plan that you have going forward.

So, before we jump into that debt payoff and that journey, Kristen, let’s start with you. Tell us a little bit more about your background, what drew you into pharmacy, where you went to school and the work that you’re doing now.

[0:02:13.0] KH: Yeah, thanks. I had some extended family members in pharmacy so I just thought it would be a good career path, and looked at the different pharmacy schools and found my way to Ohio Northern in the middle of cornfields, and no cellphone reception and for some reason, that’s where I wanted to go. I think we all know it’s a great campus and community there.

So went to Ohio Northern and that’s where Nate and I met. I completed my residency here in Cleveland, Ohio. Now I work for a large health system doing population health on clinical pharmacy, and following patients with their chronic disease states and helping them with their medicines, and helping in here in Cleveland.

[0:02:50.8] TU: Kristen, it’s funny you mentioned the cellphone reception in Ada Ohio, Ohio Northern University. I remember, I maybe as a P3, P4, just a few years ahead of you guys, but  it was a big deal that they added a tower on campus, and I think we got one bar, maybe two bars, but not a whole lot going on in Ada Ohio. I had the chance to go back recently and take Jess and the boys. It was so fun to see campus and really relive some of the memories in that place. 

So Nate, tell us about the student loan debt at its peak? What were you guys working with and then, from there, we’ll get into more of some of the motivation and journey of paying it off.

[0:03:26.4] NH: Yeah. So, when we graduated and totaled everything up and, I think it was even a month or two after we graduated that I even wanted to look at it. Because it was the initial plan of, “I just won’t look at it and then it won’t be a problem.” And when we totaled it all up, looking back at our highest count, we were at $316,000 in student loan debt at one point. 

So, that was the worst that it got and, that same month, for what it’s worth, we had a negative net worth of $306,000, so we had about 10k to our name and a bunch of debt to add on to that.

[0:03:54.8] TU: I’m curious, did that surprise you guys? One of the stories I often share is that, it’s somewhat embarrassing, but when I was in pharmacy school, it felt a little bit like monopoly money, and it was all of a sudden when I crunch the numbers and I was like, “I owe how much, and how much interest, and what’s my net worth?” It just caught me off-guard, and it shouldn’t have. Were you expecting that or was that number somewhat a surprise at that point?

[0:04:15.4] NH: I agree, it was just totally like made up funds, you know? Every quarter or every semester, I’d have to go and submit for what I needed, and it was the tuition plus a little bit of living expenses, and I would just submit for it and it would get added into this imaginary pile of money somewhere, and I don’t think I ever checked the balance while I was in school, I don’t know why, I don’t know why I would have.

[0:04:35.7] TU: You’re dating yourself Nate, when you talk about quarters by the way. So that ain’t a thing anymore.

[0:04:40.7] NH: Old school, how I work. 

[0:04:42.7] TU: Kristen, tell us about the plan that you guys had for the student loans after graduation, after you got married in 2013. How did you feel about the debt overall and then, what was the thought in that moment about how are you going to pay this off?

[0:04:55.7] KH: I think our main thought was it’s overwhelming. It’s just such a large amount that it feels so ambiguous that we thought that we had this plan. We had always wanted to try to pay it off within 10 years. I think I was a little more on track of, “Oh, I want to pay this off in 10 years” and we had some advice from a previous financial advisor that had said, “Oh, it’s just student loan debt, everyone has it, it will be okay.” We changed it to 30 years so we could have minimum payments but always pay extra if we wanted to and, ultimately, we just found that that eventually did not work as well for us.

We needed a more targeted plan to get us on track with what we were doing. We had always been paying the amounts, but I think it was how we were planning to target to actually pay it off. It always felt like this end date that we were never going to get to.

[0:05:44.4] TU: One of the questions I like to ask folks, and we’ll talk more in a little bit about how aggressive you guys were to really get a chunk of this paid off, but I like to understand, what’s the why? What’s the motivation behind it? It’s one of these things, as you mentioned, you can take them out 25, 30 years if you want to. Obviously, you guys made a good decision to be much more aggressive. Tell me more about for the two of you, for your family, why was that important?

[0:06:08.2] NH: It’s funny you say that because I think until I had a why, it wasn’t important. Like I said, I didn’t look at it, I barely wanted to check it. I think at one point in residency, I put myself on the graduated repayment plan and my only motivation was because the payment today is lower and that seems like—that seems better, right? 

I had no plan early on, until we developed the ‘why’, which was getting our financial house in order so that we could live the way that we wanted to. Travel, work less, work in the capacities that we wanted to, all the things that have led us to this point. Until I had that in place, there wasn’t a why and it didn’t matter.

[0:06:42.7] TU: Yeah, I think that’s such a good encouragement for folks that are in the midst of their journey, or maybe have wondered into the repayment or for that matter, the financial plan at large, and feel like, “Hey, maybe I’m progressing but not as quickly as I would like to. I’m a little bit stuck.” Really going back to what gets us excited, right? 

The topic of money, money is a tool. So, what gets us excited, why do we care bout this topic of money, why do we care about debt repayment, why do we care about saving/investing for the future, why do we care about giving? And then using that as the motivation to drive some of the action and the plan going forward. 

So, Nate, what happened in 2016 that was really a motivation to say, “Hey, we’ve got to do something different?”

[0:07:22.0] NH: Yeah, that really is when it changed for us and, again, we’d been paying on them and, every once in a while, we get the idea that, “Hey, we should throw in some extra money because these loans are huge.” We would do it for a couple of months and I feel like we just were inconsistent. But in 2016, we got pregnant with our first child and, again, I tell this story on the podcast several times, but I read Rich Dad Poor Dad and it completely changed my mindset about money and what I wanted to do with money and what I wanted to do with my life and work, and just how I looked at finances.

It’s crazy it took that long to figure that out but I had no formal financial education. We go through pharmacy school, not business school, and until I read that book and changed how I wanted to approach finances in general, again, I didn’t have that why behind it. I didn’t have that motivation, so that’s what really jumpstarted us. I think it was a combination of, “Oh crap, we have a kid on the way and we have to pay for a lot of stuff” and again, this mindset shift that occurred, at least for me.

[0:08:16.1] TU: Kristen, I’m curious. I can just see Nate, because I know him now, I could see him like this totally nerding out over Rich Dad Poor Dad and coming to you with all these ideas and, “What about this, what about that?” Were you equally on fire in that moment or was there different motivations that really led you to say “Hey, we’ve got to do this differently?”

[0:08:34.4] KH: Yeah, I think I had always wanted to pay off the loan. Again, it was just so—it was a large amount that I think I didn’t know how to get there. When Nate said he read Rich Dad Poor Dad, he kept talking about it and talking about it. I think finally, in 2019, I read it, I said, “Oh, this is a really good book, I should have done it sooner”

So, I think we are a really good team together, in trying to work together and get those payments down, and Nate was very much more into it. I think at the time, I was like, I’m growing a human, I’m just going to keep doing what I’m doing, and that was the time that Nate entered real estate. He’s told this story before but, I’m six months pregnant and he goes, “Oh, I think I want to get my real estate license.” This is a time most people would have been getting board certified. 

He’s like, “I’m going to go get my real estate license.” He had classes multiple times a week and I’m pregnant, trying to take care of the house and do all these things, getting ready for a baby. So, it paid off in the end and I’m glad that he did it, but I think in the moment there was also that stressful situation for me, but he’s a jack of all trades. He does lots of things and keeps busy, so it’s good.

[0:09:36.0] TU: We’re going to come back to that in a little bit, of what role did that play, Nate, for you, in terms of pursuing that, as you call, a side hustle. It’s much bigger than that, the work that you’re doing now, obviously, but why was that so instrumental, and not only to the numbers but also to some of the mindset and the motivation behind the financial plan and the journey that you were on?

I want to first talk about, though, Nate, walk us through what happened in the pandemic that really allowed you guys to say, “Hey, we’re going to get specific about when we’re going to payoff a big chunk of this debt, what it’s going to take each month.” Talk to us about what happened during the pandemic that led you to the decision around how you were going to pay off a huge portion of that debt.

[0:10:15.5] NH: Yeah, so, like I said, 2016 is where we started getting pretty serious, but even then, it wasn’t truly resolute plan, right? It was just, “Okay, we really got to be focusing on throwing extra money at this” and we did a lot better. But in 2020, we had a month or two in the pandemic and realized, “Okay, we’re not traveling as much, we’re not going to be going out to eat as much, everything shut down, let’s use this time to take the extra money that we’re not spending and really attack that loan.” At one point and, again, we were talking this morning, it was right at the end of the year, we said, “Okay, this thing is not going away, let’s really use next year to just get rid of this loan.”

So, right in December of 2020 and going into the beginning of the New Year, we said, “Let’s figure out a number. What is it that’s going to take to get this loan knocked out at the end of the year? Who cares of the balances right now, we’re going to do it in a year, let’s make sure to get it done.” So, we did some crunching of some numbers and basically said, “Okay, if we can pay everything we’re paying today but also throw an extra $3,443 at the loan every single month, mine will be gone by the end of the year and it will be just knocked out.”

So, that number, I wrote it on the big note card over here and it became like—actually got it here, I’ll grab it. Here you go, so there’s the evidence, right? 3,443. So, that became—I put that everywhere and it became the mantra of like, “If we can do that every single month, this will be gone” and that was such a huge motivator for us.  

[0:11:32.8] TU: I don’t want to brush over that, because we’ll talk about it, I mean, that’s a big number, so we’re going to talk about the how of that, but tell us more about how you were able to get to that conclusion and get on the same page with that conclusion? What I’m specifically getting at here is, was it a, “hey budget status quo and we’re going to find ways to grow our income”? Was it a, “we’re going to cut some expenses”? How did you guys work through the details, Kristen, to ultimately say, “Yup, it’s $3,443 and this is how we’re going to do it.”

[0:12:04.5] KH: I think it was a little bit of a combination of both. During the pandemic, we had a little bit more interest. I think also, in doing some real estate investing and had an opportunity, we said, “Okay, do we take this money and do we put it towards real estate or do we pay down the loan more?” and eventually, we decide real estate, but we said, “Hey, like, maybe we should aggressively pay off our loan a little bit more if we are traveling and doing these things.” 

So, I think in December, we had a lot of discussion about it and both of us just decided yes, we both want that to be our goal, that starting January 1st, we really start cutting back on what we’re spending. I think, really, from any area that we could, we went thorough our budget, we scrubbed it. We said, “What are we spending money on, what are the subscriptions we have, what can we cut out, what can we save money on?” 

“Which of those little purchases can we just stop doing? Which things do we think that we need, can we actually hold off on buying?” and then, certainly, Nate’s side hustle helped with that as well. So, I think it was both a combination of, let’s cut back to really bare minimum spending. We weren’t eating out, we weren’t getting the extra cups of coffee from Starbucks, we weren’t doing the purchases at Target that said, “This is what you need, and this is in the dollar spot.” We just stopped all of that. And Nate worked as hard as he could with his real estate; it really is a motivator to keep putting that extra money towards it as well. 

[0:13:22.3] NH: Yeah, I think we quickly realized that trying to find for an extra $3,000 in the budget. We weren’t over spending by three grand every month, that was not it, so it became my challenge to say, “Okay, well, how can I work at this side hustle to really get us the rest of the way?” So, the expenses were the catalyst, and then it was the extra income side of the equation that really boosted everything to actually make it possible.

[0:13:44.7] TU: Yeah. What I love about that is, certainly, cutting expenses, especially short-term, if you’re focused on a goal, you were talking about debt repayment, can be really valuable but it also can be a grind. I mean, it can be soul sucking sometimes, you know? 

I think that one of the things I love about the approach that you took is that if you’re moving both sides of the equation, there’s a different level of momentum and mindset that come from that. Maybe the numbers aren’t as big for other folks that are pursuing ideas, but if you can both focus on, “Hey, how can we draw the income and how can we keep the expenses?” you all of a sudden feel like you’re picking up momentum in a significant way, but I don’t want to brush over that number.

$3,443 per month, that’s, for many pharmacist, if we assume, hundred, $120,000 of wage, it’s like, it’s about half of take home pay. I mean, for a lot of folks, we look at that at a monthly basis so that’s certainly commendable, and that’s a big number. Nate, I want to ask the question that I know the listeners are thinking, which is Nate, Kristen, you guys are smart. $3,443, why not invest that money? 

Why not put that out so we could see that grow and compound over 20, 30, 40 years? Like, how did you guys reconcile this ongoing debate, which is maybe a little bit of a moot point right now because the administrative forbearance, but this ongoing debate of, “Should I pay down the debt or should I invest for the future?”

[0:15:03.9] NH: Yeah. This is something we struggled with for years. Should we go out and buy another rental property or should we just take this money and throw it at the loan? That’s been the back and forth. Like Kristen was saying, we were evaluating whether we should be doing real estate or paying down the debt.

We challenged ourself to say like, “Can we do both?” and so, for me, again, working and trying to add extra income to the equation. It became a game of, “Okay, if I can make $3,000 a month extra, that’s going to get us there. But if I can make 4,000 or 5,000, that’s another couple of grand I can put at the real estate investing budget.”

So what we have, we had a bucket in LI, in our LI bank account, that was the real estate investing fund and we still have that, we still use it, it is a great way to separate our money. I had to pull from that in any month that I didn’t make enough income to really make the difference, I had to pull out of that. So it was like this, I was afraid to give it up. So it became a challenge to myself and to us. 

We need to cut our expenses and raise our income in a way where I can keep padding that account, that bucket, while also meeting our number. It was a double motivator of let’s get rid of the debt and I don’t want to lose sight of the other thing that I’m really passionate about. So, let us find a way to do both. 

[0:16:09.8] TU: Kristen, we both know that kids could be expensive. We love them, but it can be very expensive. I think one of the challenges folks have that are raising young family, whether it is debt repayment, whether it is achieving other financial goals, is it’s an expensive phase of life, right? 

The data suggested it’s multiples of hundreds of thousands to be able to raise a child, and I am curious of how you guys were able to reconcile this with young ones? I know you guys are so active and intentional as a family now. When you’re looking ahead to say, “Hey, this is a sacrifice now but it is going to allow us to really push our goals forward as a family later in the future.” Tell us about your thoughts on that. 

[0:16:46.9] KH: For sure. I remember being pregnant in 2016 and just thinking like, “Oh my gosh, I already feel like we’re living paycheck to paycheck, how are we possibly going to raise a child and afford daycare?” We even joke now, our big expense is mortgage. Childcare and student loan debt was there, our mortgage was the least expensive of all of those. 

So yes, certainly having kids is—we always felt like we knew we wanted to have kids and it was just figuring out how do we plan for that. I think, especially now, spending more time with the kids too without having that student loan debt and being able to do more things and travel more, it feels like it’s definitely paying off in the end with making some of those sacrifices or making those adjustments.  

Really, that mindset change, I was joking this morning, like you said Tim, it’s mindset changing. In 2021, we actually kept a list of things of, what are things we didn’t buy that we’re going to buy when the student loan is paid, and I was laughing because I’m like, “I still haven’t even bought these things yet.” We just found that maybe we don’t actually need them. 

[0:17:44.7] TU: Yeah and some of those behaviors. That’s what I always encourage folks, whatever goal you’re working towards, some of those behaviors you implement in that season will stay with you for the long run. Certainly, there’s a time and place to loosen the reigns a little bit and make sure we’re living a rich life today as well as planning for the future, but we’ll talk about what that looks like for you guys. 

But some of those behaviors can stay longer, which I think is really an incredible part of the journey. I want to touch on two things we’ve mentioned I think play a really important role to this journey, which is, number one, that you talk about the side hustle you had working full-time as a pharmacist, as a real estate agent that allowed you to accelerate some of the goals and momentum. 

Then the second being the investing in real estate, which much of our community already knows the work that you there on the Real Estate Investing Podcast but talk to us first about the side hustle as a realtor. When did you become a realtor, why did you become a realtor and you know ultimately, how have you been able to balance this while you are also at the time working full-time?” You are raising a young family, tell us about the decision to pursue that work and the role that it played and the debt repayment journey. 

[0:18:51.3] NH: Yes, I mentioned that mindset shift that occurred in 2016. I realized I needed something else that was going to be able to supplement my pharmacy career, something where I could put extra effort in and get extra reward from doing that, real estate became a natural fit. Again, it is mentioned a dozen times in Rich Dad Poor Dad and I started reading other things about ways to diversify income streams and, you name it, right? 

Real estate was in that conversation. I talked to my father-in-law who has been in real estate for years and he’s like, “You should just get your license.” At the time that felt like, “Well, that’s a different career. I can’t do that” but as I looked into it, it was actually a really reasonable option to supplement that. So I went, like Kristen said, to classes in 2016, got licensed in early 2017 and I assumed that everyone was all of a sudden coming to me, right? 

All my family and friends were going to flock to me and say, “Nate, buy and sell me a house” and it was, I think, eight months before I had a real client and actually closed the deal. I mean, it was a long time, and that’s because I wasn’t putting the right amount of effort into it and I wasn’t targeting what I needed to be doing, right? I wasn’t niching down and, again, that’s what led to the creation of real estate RPH and all the work that I do with pharmacists and the real estate community. 

All those things progressed down the road to the point where I am at today where, again, now I get to work with a bunch of active clients here in Cleveland. I help people all over the country with our real estate concierge service and it is a really cool way to put my passion for real estate into the world of pharmacy that I started out in and, again, it’s also been a great way for us to supplement our income stream just because it is something where I could put more effort in and get more dollars out as a result from doing that. 

[0:20:21.6] TU: Yeah. I want to put a plug in, just so you don’t have to as well, but I think that service has really been so valuable to the community. So, if folks are looking to buy a home, sell a home, looking to buy an investment property and they’re looking for an agent that would be a good fit for them. It is okay if you’re not in the Cleveland area where Nate is, he’s built a network of agents all across the country that have supported other pharmacist. 

So, if you go to yourfinancialpharmacist.com, you click on home buying, you’ll see a section for find an agent and from there, you can get connected with Nate further. 

Kristen, I want to ask you about the real estate investing side just because Nate talks about this on the podcast every week but I know, because I’ve seen it offline through some of the times I am talking with Nate, you guys are crunching numbers on the property and you’re on the spreadsheets punching numbers, “Is this a good deal, is this not a good deal?”

Tell us more about the vision that you guys have had for real estate investing for you as a family, why that’s been a good fit, and the approach that you’ve taken thus far in your real estate investing journey? 

[0:21:17.5] KH: Yeah, I think we always had an interest in real estate investing. You know, my family has some experience with that, like Nate mentioned, my dad is a realtor, so we knew its something we eventually wanted to do. It was just figuring out ,how do we put it in as part of our plan? But when Nate said he was interested, I was all onboard, but I was also that type-A risk averse pharmacist as in, “How do we do this? I have no idea.” 

I vividly remember a lot of my commutes, listening to Bigger Pockets, reading a lot of real estate books just to fill my brain with the information I felt that I needed to feel comfortable with real estate investing, and we always knew that we wanted to have those properties. I think one of the biggest things I had learned from Bigger Pockets was, one great thing about real estate investing is even if something happens, you still own a building. 

You still have something physical there that you could sell and we just—we always knew we wanted it to be something to supplement with one of our investments. 

[0:22:13.4] TU: Yeah, so right now you guys have property, correct me if I am wrong, you’ve got property in Northeast Ohio and then you’ve also got property outside of the area, correct? 

[0:22:22.0] NH: Yes, so we’ve got properties here locally and then some up in Michigan as well. 

[0:22:25.7] TU: Awesome, love that. And folks can tune in to the Real Estate Investing Podcast for more stories of other pharmacists real estate investors. So, we’ve talked about really three main buckets that were instrumental in paying off this $250,000 of debt and that was, I categorize it as hustle, cutting your expenses that more than $3,000 per month, growing the income through the side hustle, and then also looking at how you’re able to build a real estate investment portfolio. We’re there other strategies that helped you along this way of paying off this debt?  

[0:22:55.8] NH: There are little things. I think one that comes to mind for me is that we refinanced that loan, I think four different times, and a lot of that was because we were getting low interest rates every single time, and the other is because we were able to get big bonus. So, if you have been on any of the YFP resources for loan pay down or for loan refinance, you get cash bonuses depending on your loan balance. 

A couple of times we would go out and refinance it, wait a couple of months, refinance it again, and we’d get a check and a lower interest rate, it just made a ton of sense. So, that was a little thing that helped quite a lot along the way. 

[0:23:24.2] KH: I think another thing that really helped us was working with Tim Baker and the planning team at YFP. They were very much instrumental in guiding us through and helping us make the decisions. You know, I grew up putting my money under a mattress making sure it was nice and crisp and counting it every week. When we started this journey, Nate wasn’t financially savvy until 2016, when he got more into it after reading Rich Dad Poor Dad

So, I think working together in having a third party objectively look at everything and give us some guidance was really helpful as well. 

[0:23:55.9] TU: You don’t have to make Tim’s ego any bigger. No, I’m just kidding. I can see he is listening to that. So the question that I am begging to know the answer to is, you guys were throwing a huge amount of money at this debt. Obviously, at some point, you got that debt paid off and, all of a sudden, you’re not having to make that big of a payment anymore. I often think about this in the context of my journey and I often chalk it up to where did that money go. 

Well, more kids, kids got expensive, other things come along the way, but I also know you guys have been really intentional as a family about what are we trying to do in terms of experiences and how we want to be intentional with the resources and the money that you have each month. So, Kristen, talk to us about this journey after the $250,000 of debt, where no longer making this massive monthly payment. What’s happening? What are we doing? 

[0:24:43.5] KH: Well, we went to Disney World. I feel like that’s the most appropriate thing, you know? Honestly, in some parts, it feels like it hasn’t changed at all. We still have a lot of that mindset with being frugal and still saving for our future, but also trying to live in the moment, and we have done a lot of life planning as well and things that we want to do. I think we’re working on travelling more. 

Like I said, we went to Disney, hopefully some other trips coming up, just being able to spend more time with the kids I think. People with children understand that the first five years before they start school is just hectic and overwhelming. We were just trying to take in all these moments before they head to school officially. 

[0:25:20.1] TU: I love that. Right, it goes quick and everyone says that, but it’s real, and I think the intentionality around these experiences and making sure there’s the budget there to support those experiences and to be able to enjoy those moments along the way. Nate, you recently shared publically your decision to go from full-time to part-time work in your pharmacist role. So we’re going to officially call you a pseudo pharmacist now. 

[0:25:41.7] NH: That’s fair. 

[0:25:42.9] TU: How much of a factor was getting to this point of having this $250,000 of debt paid off, how much of a factor was that and being able to approach that decision and ultimately, feel confident in that decision. 

[0:25:55.4] NH: Yeah, it was huge. I mean, I can’t say that when we stared off that was the plan but as we get closer, we realized that it was a possibility, and I looked at the timing and I looked at where we were at and I said, “Look, this is like the last summer before our oldest goes off to kindergarten and then it is just going to get crazier and crazier as time goes on” So I took a step back and said, “Now that this debt is gone, we really can take a step back.”

Kristen has been so supportive and helpful in allowing me to do that, but it’s been really cool because now I can just focus on them for the summer and those extra 20 hours that I found every single week is just, I’m on the kid’s schedule. Like the other day, it was raining in the morning and so we went to the movies and we saw a kid’s movie and then we got out and I was like, “Hey, it’s sunny. Let’s go to the playground” and so we did that. 

It was just really cool to be on their schedule rather than some work schedule or something else that I had to do or had to get done. There wasn’t a timeframe anymore and that’s been really cool and again, without that debt being gone, there is no way we could have done that. 

[0:26:51.3] TU: Yeah, what I love is I think both of you are such a great example. Where yes, you’ve got a PharmD, yes, you’ve got residency training, yes, you could continue to climb certainly in various clinical roles and there’s the opportunities always there and will be there, but you also have some opportunity for flexibility in those roles and I think sometimes we don’t think creatively enough as pharmacist about how we’re going to use our time each week, and that can change season to season. 

I work with other pharmacists who went through a season with young family and others where they pivoted to part-time roles or more flexible schedules and then that changed the game at a later point in time. So I think there’s opportunities to make sure that we are coordinating our work plan with our life plan and with the financial plan as well. Kristen, I’ll start with you and then Nate, if you have other thoughts as well. 

I’m someone listening who, maybe I’m a student, and I am like, “Oh my gosh, thanks so much I feel depressed about the journey ahead” or maybe I am in the middle of the debt repayment journey and I just feel like, “When does this going to end?” or I feel like I am spinning my wheels. What advice would you have for pharmacists that are in that debt repayment journey as they’re trying to really navigate that path forward? 

[0:27:58.8] KH: Yeah. Not to sound cheesy, but I think a really big player, at least for me, was the YFP planning team. We felt like we had a plan but we weren’t really sure if it was a good plan, and really it was after I had our second child and I was listening to a lot of podcast. I was walking everyday on maternity leave and I was listening to podcast every time I would go for a walk and I was like, “We really need to look at this.” 

I feel like we need a more set plan as to what we’re doing, especially since you’re at such an integral point of your life where you want to be able to spend extra time with the kids, but you also may feel like you can’t financially do that, and so I think having that, like I said, that objective third party look at what you two are talking about as a couple can be really, really helpful, and also helped us look at a lot of our other financial plan with the investments. 

Like, can we get into more real estate investing, are we contributing enough to our 401(k)? Are we doing things that seem like we should be doing? I think that is really, really been a big impact on us on being able to achieve this. 

[0:28:55.0] TU: Nate, any other words of wisdom, advice you’d have to folks that are kind of in the thick of it, if you will? 

[0:29:00.6] NH: Yeah, I think for me, again, just for me at least, what were just this mindset shift away from being stuck at, “Okay, I only have—this is my income” right? “If I make a $110,000 a year as a pharmacist, that’s all I’ve got and there is no other opportunities and I have to make it work with that money.” I challenge everybody out there, and there’s a thousand and one different ways to do this, but you should find something where the more effort you put in, the more you get out of it, and it doesn’t have to be money, right?  

That can be just time, that can be time with your family, that can be things that you enjoy doing, whatever that is, find something that is going to supplement your life that the more effort you put into it, the more reward you get out of it ,and that is just a really great way to set yourself up for success. 

[0:29:40.9] TU: I love that. To reiterate what we talked about a little bit ago, the dollars are one piece of that, but don’t underestimate the momentum that comes from that as well, and that momentum is so important as it relates to the financial plan. You’re related to the debt repayment but I always stick to the other parts of the plan as well. Again guys, congratulations on knocking out this huge chunk of debt. 

Really incredible to hear the story and the why behind it and how you’re able to do it, excited for what lies ahead of you guys and thanks for taking time to come on the show.

[0:30:10.5] NH: Thanks Tim, we appreciate it. 

[0:30:11.6] KH: Thank you. 

[END OF INTERVIEW]

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YFP 183: How Amanda and Holden Created Freedom by Paying Off $100k of Debt


How Amanda and Holden Created Freedom by Paying Off $100k of Debt

Amanda and Holden Graves join Tim Ulbrich to talk about their journey paying off $100,000 of student loans and other debt in just a few years. They share their strategies for aggressively repaying their debt, how they were able to effectively work together as a couple, and what lies ahead for them and their financial plan now that they are officially debt free.

About Today’s Guests

Holden Graves is a pharmacist working for a behavioral health hospital in Texas. He enjoys utilizing data to help problem solve and fix workflow issues. His passion is for disrupting the current healthcare model and focusing on improving patient outcomes.

Amanda Graves is a food scientist who enjoys working in the kitchen. She has a passion for cooking and loves that she can combine science and cooking to create delicious products on an enormous scale.

Amanda and Holden are excited to share their story to help motivate and inspire other professionals on their debt payoff journey.

Summary

Holden and Amanda Graves share their story of accumulating, navigating, and ultimately paying off $100,000 of student loans and car debt in a few years. Holden, a pharmacist, and his wife Amanda, a food scientist, were able to get through their undergraduate programs without acquiring any debt by working, scholarships, in-state tuition, and money from his grandfather. They took steps to minimize their debt burden when Holden went to pharmacy school by attending an in-state school and working. Holden was able to graduate with $80,000 in loans and about $20,000 in a car loan.

Holden and Amanda prioritized discussions about money as a couple before they were married and feel that it built a great foundation in their marriage. They learned a lot about each other and discovered that they had slightly different outlooks on their feelings toward their debt. Amanda was more risk averse and wanted to pay off the debt as soon as possible. On the other hand, Holden was comfortable paying it off over 5 or 10 years while focusing on increasing their investing assets. They compromised and decided to still pay off the debt aggressively over a couple of years while also putting money toward an emergency fund, house down payment, and into their retirement accounts.

To pay off the debt, they relied on automating their finances and refinancing their student loans to get a lower rate. Now that they are debt free, they feel that they have freedom and options and are going to continue saving for retirement, funding smaller goals like vacations, and focusing on increasing their invested assets.

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Episode Transcript

Tim Ulbrich: Amanda and Holden, welcome to the show.

Holden Graves: Thanks, Tim. Happy to be here.

Amanda Graves: Yeah, thanks for having us.

Tim Ulbrich: I recently ran across a blog post on the scope of practice titled “How One Pharmacist Paid Off $100,000 of Student Loans and Other Debt in Just a Few Years,” and after reading that article, I was inspired by your story and wanted to bring on not only Holden to share about his journey in pharmacy, school, pharmacy practice, debt accrual, which we’ll talk about here in a little bit, but also bring Amanda on the show as we know that this ultimately for the two of them was obviously a joint decision in how they were going to approach this debt and how they were going to approach the rest of the financial plan. So I really appreciate you guys coming on to share this story. Now before we jump into the specifics of your debt-free journey, how you did it, how much you had, what was the secret to success, what does this mean for you guys going forward, I’d like to start by hearing a little bit about your backgrounds and the work that you’re doing today. So Holden, let’s start with you. Tell us a little bit about your pharmacy career background, how you got into a pharmacy career, what was the interest, where you went to school and the work that you’re doing right now.

Holden Graves: Yeah, that sounds perfect. Yeah, so originally I’m from northwest Arkansas, so near where the University of Arkansas is. So what really got me interested is I actually in high school, one of my favorite teachers actually read an article to us about pharmacists and kind of the need for pharmacists as the population continues to age. So that was kind of what sparked the interest in me, and I went and shadowed — my uncle actually owns his own pharmacy, so I went and shadowed with him and just loved the rapport that he had built with his patients. They all came to him and had questions for him and trusted him just as much as their physicians. And so I just loved that rapport that he built. So that’s what got me interested. I went to the University of Arkansas for my undergraduate, where I met my lovely wife. And then went to the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences for pharmacy school. So I did my four years there and in the middle of pharmacy school, I got married to my wife. So that was just an amazing experience from that point of view. After school, I actually applied for residency, but I didn’t match with anywhere. So that was kind of interesting, kind of left me scrambling. Luckily, I was able to find a job at the Children’s Hospital in Dallas, where I started and worked there for three years and then now currently at a behavioral hospital, still in the Dallas area.

Tim Ulbrich: Very cool. And you know, I hope here, your story there, Holden, for our listeners and if we have students that are listening, especially those that are in their fourth professional year, getting ready, end of 2020, submitting applications, getting ready for residency interviews, thinking about the matches, it’s overwhelming, right? And I think that just hearing your story about yep, the match was not successful maybe by what you had determined success would look like in that time, but I’m guessing through persistence and other opportunities and doors that opened up, you found yourself in the niche working in behavioral health. Real quick on that, like from the experience of not doing residency, how were you able to find yourself in a position like this? And ultimately, what was successful for you to be able to land a position that others may hear and say, ‘That’s a job that typically does require residency.’?

Holden Graves: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, there’s no small amount of luck that happened. I got into the Children’s Hospital. It was kind of an entry-level pharmacist position, so I was mostly in the operations side. So that part, he basically was only looking for new grads, so that worked out that I was able to get in from that avenue. And after that, I just kind of worked my way into the good graces to where I became the pharmacist in charge of one of the smaller pediatric hospitals. And so that kind of positioned me well as just having that experience of going through and dealing with the nursing leadership and the physician leadership that then ultimately allowed me to transition into the behavioral health side as well, where I’m also serving as a pharmacist in charge. So.

Tim Ulbrich: That’s great. Congratulations. I think paving that pathway is something — we need to hear more of those stories because I think we sometimes fall into the trap that if I don’t do A or B or C, it doesn’t mean I’m going to have these other opportunities. And there’s certainly many other stories out there such as yours. So Amanda, tell us a little bit about yourself.

Amanda Graves: Most definitely. So my background is actually in food science, which is awesome. So I went to the University of Arkansas, where I met my husband. And so graduated from there, and I immediately got into the food industry. And so my background’s a little bit diverse between quality assurance but majority of my career has been in research and development. And then I also dabbled in sales in the food industry for awhile, kind of on a technical sales side. But currently, I work in the culinary department for a restaurant company. So I get to manage kind of the food and culinary side from a science perspective, which is really great for me to be able to combine — I love food, and I love to eat, so I get to combine the culinary arts with the food science side and just make things come to life on a mass scale.

Tim Ulbrich: What a unique career path. When I read some of your background of combining science and cooking, I was like, heck yeah! I mean, that’s awesome. I think one of the reasons I enjoy cooking so much is just, you know, that bringing in some of the science and understanding it. It reminds me of some of the pharmacy training. I think there is so much both art and science in cooking. So how did you find yourself in that career path and even having an interest in that area?

Amanda Graves: It really worked out well. So my high school had a culinary arts magnet program.

Tim Ulbrich: Cool.

Amanda Graves: So I did culinary training for the first three years of high school and then senior year, I was an intern in a hotel kitchen, which was an absolutely incredible experience. But with that, I also learned I didn’t want to be a chef. And just through seeing that, I was like, but I still love food and also in my high school, I was in the science magnet program, and I took chemistry for two years because I just love chemistry. And so just kind of thinking about how I can combine my love of science and food, I just kind of stumbled upon food science, and it really just is the perfect combination.

Tim Ulbrich: I love it. And before we go on to talk more about your financial journey and your story, which I’m confident is going to motivate, inspire other pharmacy professionals and others listening on their own journey and their own debt payoff, what they’re working through as well, I have to know. I don’t hear the thick Arkansas accent that I have heard from other guests on the show that have graduated from UAMS or Harding. What’s the deal? Are there like levels of Arkansas accent?

Holden Graves: Yeah, there’s — up in the northwest corner of the state where the University of Arkansas, we kind of more have the less southern and then as you get closer into Little Rock and the southern part of the state, it gets a lot thicker. Amanda’s also actually from Dallas too, so she doesn’t have that from Arkansas.

Tim Ulbrich: OK. That explains it.

Amanda Graves: So I definitely don’t have a southern accent. And on Holden, it only comes out on certain words occasionally but otherwise not too much.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, I’m thinking of other guests we’ve had on the show that are doing some awesome things, debt repayment, real estate investing, others in the Arkansas area, and it was definitely a thicker accent.

Holden Graves: Yeah, that’s more the southern part of the state.

Tim Ulbrich: Absolutely. Well, let’s jump in. Paying off $100,000, student loans and other debt in just a few years, and so we’re going to talk about how you did that, how you accrued it, how you paid it off, why you did it, what was the strategy. So Holden, kick us off here. Was this a majority or all of your student loan debt? Tell us about the amount and also the position and how you got into that.

Holden Graves: Yeah, absolutely. So I guess it depends on who you’re talking to on whose debt it is. So according to me, it’s all of my student loan debt. According to my lovely wife, it’s all of our student loan debt. So it was mainly my schooling that accounted for all of that. So as far as the actual student loan debt goes, we were about $80,000 in student loan debt. But in the middle of pharmacy school and then right after pharmacy school, we actually purchase two new cars. And so at the lowest point, we had about $100,000 in total debt.

Tim Ulbrich: OK. So about $80,000 in student loans, about $20,000 in two cars. That brings us together to that $100,000. Now, I’m sure many of our listeners hear $80,000 and say, “I wish I only had $80,000 in student loan debt,” which you know, it’s unfortunate that I even have to say that out loud, but that’s the reality, right? So we have Class of 2020, we now have the median student loan debt that is north of $175,000. I’ve often talked and worked with pharmacists that exceed that or perhaps even couples that have more on top of that, so $80,000 — I don’t want to mitigate what you guys have done. I mean, it’s incredible. But my question there is what was the strategy? How were you able to keep the debt load I guess “low” of $80,000 compared to what we see out there as the normal?

Holden Graves: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, so we were very intentional — or I was very intentional early on whenever we were accumulating the debt. So luckily, we were both able to graduate undergrad with no debt, so it was just pharmacy school that I needed to finance my way through. But I just still wanted to take out the minimum that I possibly could. So I really only took out enough loans just to cover tuition. I never took out anything extra to cover expenses or rent or anything. I had a little bit saved up because I actually worked in a pharmacy in undergrad and saved up some money there. And then while I was in pharmacy school, I did still work as well. So I still was — that was basically able to cover my rent and food payments were basically coming from what I was able to work. So that’s kind of the way we did that. And then just going to our in-state school, University of Arkansas, is one of the lower cost programs, so just trying to stay as low cost as we possibly could with that was a big key.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, multi-prong approach, I think that’s a good strategy. A little bit of strategy in where you go to school, in-state tuition, as well as being able to work and some other things that can help reduce. And as our listeners know very well, whether they are in the debt accrual or debt paydown phase, anything you can do to reduce that indebtedness while you’re in school is going to pay dividends obviously from what you don’t have to pay back into the future. So in the article that you wrote and I referenced earlier in the show, you mention that while you were still in pharmacy school and before you were married, you had discussions about money, which I think and I’ve talked about on the show before is so important for every couple to be doing as early as you can, having some of these big discussions around money, here, we’re obviously talking about debt but of course it’s much bigger than that. So Amanda, tell our listeners about those conversations, you know, how they went, how you felt about the debt even though it wasn’t your own debt but was going to become your collective debt, how those conversations went, and what you ultimately discovered about each other through those conversations.

Amanda Graves: Yeah, most definitely. So we both knew that a great foundation in marriage is communication, and we also knew that financial stress can one of the major stressors in a marital relationship. So we wanted to start those conversations really early on, just to make sure we were on the same page and kind of had a strategy. And then for my personal perspective of coming in, you know, I was all-in, I was very supportive of Holden and going to pharmacy school and that included the student loan debt that came along with it. So I — as Holden mentioned earlier, I very much saw it as our debt, not just his debt. And so together, we needed to kind of make that plan to address it. But like you mentioned, a lot of those early conversations, we got to learn a lot about each other and just how we viewed money and kind of those different backgrounds that we had from a financial perspective and kind of blend those together to make a plan so we had that even before we were married, which helped just to kind of continue to address that as we were kind of going through the process.

Tim Ulbrich: That’s great. I think conversations are important, as awkward as they may be at first or however you break the ice, you know, I think the outcome is incredibly valuable, not only on the debt repayment part, but of course as you guys know, from living this, this is just one part of the financial plan, so having open communication here hopefully will translate to other areas as well. Holden, for our listeners that perhaps find themselves in a situation where they’re carrying a big debt load, maybe a serious relationship, haven’t yet had that conversation, maybe they’re feeling a little bit of guilt about hey, I’m bringing this debt into the relationship, I’m not sure how someone’s going to perceive this, any words of wisdom or advice that you would give them here in how you were able to approach this subject? Or was it just a natural conversation that really came to be between you and Amanda?

Holden Graves: I think the — just the foundation of our relationship and just the trust that we were able to give to each other that she was open to hearing exactly what it was. And the main thing is that I didn’t want this to be like me v. her or anything like that. Like I wanted us to come together to try and tackle the debt together and try and do everything. So I didn’t want to take her feelings out of the situation, and I wanted to take her advice as well because she’s much smarter than I am. So I definitely, I wanted to bring us both on the same page because it’s a lot easier if we’re both know what we’re heading towards as opposed to two people at odds with each other.

Tim Ulbrich: Absolutely. And that is a good segue into one of the questions I like to ask individuals such as for you guys as you’re going through this journey together and have chosen an aggressive debt payoff strategy is what’s the purpose? What’s the reason? What’s the why behind this aggressive debt repayment? And we’ll talk in a moment about exactly how you did it, but I think that question is one that I talk often on the show about it’s so important to answer that. And I don’t necessarily believe there’s one right answer, but we know there’s options, right? So you guys could have taken out this $80,000 in student loan debt, you could have taken out 20+ years or you could have aggressively paid it off like you did, whether that’s in the federal system or with a private lender. So tell our listeners — and Amanda, I want to start with you, and Holden, feel free to add on from there. Tell our listeners about what was the purpose. What was the why behind this aggressive debt repayment strategy?

Amanda Graves: So for me personally, which in my answer might vary a little from Holden’s, but for me, the why was just the stress of just having that debt kind of hanging over us, I am personally very risk-averse. And I just try and avoid anything that would either be risky or cause me more stress. Really, it was just the fear of it just kind of looming over everywhere. And I just wanted it to be gone. I just wanted it to be completely gone as fast as possible. And I was ready to do kind of whatever we needed to do to get there to kind of move on to what life would look like after the debt was paid off and just be able to have not that standing payment of the loan every month but being able to kind of free that up to have a little more flexibility in the future.

Tim Ulbrich: Holden, what about you?

Holden Graves: Yeah, mine was kind of along the same viewpoints of it’s just the stress of it hanging over you. Less so of the stress that it was hanging over me and more so of what it was hanging over Amanda. So I just could see the way that she just kind of just did not like the stress and I just knew that that’s just something we needed to get out of our lives as soon as possible. I was kind of more on the train of, you know, kind of doing the five- or 10-year repayment and just kind of letting it drag out and be invested. So kind of my viewpoint was let’s work on getting our invested assets up as high as we can as early as we can. So that’s kind of where the compromise came in. If it was up to Amanda, we probably would have had it paid off in that first year. So we kind of settled somewhere in between so that way we could make sure that we were maxing out some of our investment accounts, going about it that way as well.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, and I think compromise is such an important summary of what you just said. You know, I think some of our listeners may hear $80,000 and their natural tendency may be hey, I’m going to take that out, low interest rate, as much as I can take it out long. Again, there’s not a wrong answer, depending on somebody’s interests and how they feel about the debt. And I always say it’s the numbers plus the emotions. And both of those are really important, right? So I like what you said, Holden, you know, you may have leaned toward one strategy, but when it’s causing stress or anxiety, I think this is an area — and I say this with emergency fund as well — there’s places to defer, and there’s places where you maybe push someone to come more to the middle or maybe an area that they’re not as comfortable with. And I think this is one when you’re talking about the stress and when you’re talking about some of those other emotions that can come with this debt load, probably not the area to be pushing somebody, even if mathematically you could make an argument that hey, if I put more in investing, it may mean more in the end. So kudos to you guys for working through that.

Holden Graves: Yeah, and don’t think I didn’t also try that approach too. But it did not completely get rid of the stress from her point of view.

Tim Ulbrich: I can see the conversation of like, hey, here’s the compound interest calculator, and look at the numbers, and what if we did this? What if we did that?

Holden Graves: That’s exactly what I tried to do.

Amanda Graves: Yes, we did go over that.

Tim Ulbrich: So I want to build on something, Holden, that you said. You know, I heard you say investing was a priority. Many of our listeners are often trying to balance student loans, investing, emergency funds, paying off a car debt such as what you mentioned, saving for a home, starting a young family, making sure they have the right insurance policies in place, the list goes on and on. And I think that can be very overwhelming for folks. And there’s kind of different strategies of sometimes you balance a lot of these, sometimes you focus in on one, depending on the goal, depending on the timeline, again, depending on the math, how somebody feels. So talk us through your strategy in terms of how you approached the debt alongside of investing, alongside of emergency funds, and I know you guys currently have a home, so also being able to save up for the down payment on a home. How did you bring those issues to the table and then determine how you were going to allocate funds into what priority?

Holden Graves: Yeah, so basically we just kind of came and sat down to be able to discuss what our goals are. We actually do a monthly check-in, meeting, just a financial checkup every month so that way we can make sure we can see what we’re — we track all our spending, so we see what we spent on, how much we’ve got left over for the month and if there’s anything we need to adjust for the next month and the next year and then just also be able to talk about our goals and what goals we have. So it was kind of just that approach of just getting to the table and seeing everything. So of course mostly from Amanda’s side, it was we need to pay off the car loan, we need to pay off the student loans, and she was also a little bit like a down payment for a house because we also wanted to get into a house. And then big into the emergency fund as well, so that was kind of the other part. And so then of course I agreed with all of that. Also saving just as much as we could in our retirement accounts, so we started off just a little bit over the match and then just kind of slowly racked up over a year or two to be able to max out our 401k’s.

Tim Ulbrich: And I’m guessing our listeners may be thinking what I’m thinking, which is, you know, you’re making it sound very easy. But even when you look at that number, I mean, $80,000 or $100,000 and some over three years, people will do the math, $100,000, 36 months, those are big monthly payments. And so it wasn’t just the student loan debt or the car debt. It was also the down payment that you were saving for a home, it was also investing for retirement, all of those things need cash, right? And at some point, you’ve got to figure out how we can lives off of less than we make so we can free up cash to be able to achieve those goals. So tell us more, Amanda, like what was the strategy or what was the success, the secret sauce, whatever you want to call it, for you guys in terms of being able to keep expenses down so you could ultimately free up cash and put that cash towards the goals. What were some of the sacrifices or cuts that you guys had to make?

Amanda Graves: One thing I think that we learned — and I think Holden mentioned it earlier — that we got married in the middle of pharmacy school, so for those first two years of marriage, Holden was in school and I was working. So we kind of had figured out how to live off of one salary. And then even though we were super excited, you know, come graduation and Holden getting a job, we really tried to live within the same means that we had been for those previous two years and then just kind of bringing the new paycheck that we were getting to go towards all those different things of meeting our financial goals. So I think that was the big thing was still living off the same budget and then just freeing up the rest to our financial goals.

Tim Ulbrich: And how did automation, Holden, if at all, play a role here? You know, we talk a lot about on the show, once you’ve got a plan, really one of the best things we do is get out of our own way to make sure the plan actually happens. And automation is often the vehicle, the system, that will allow that to happen. Did you implement kind of automatic withdrawals towards these payments? Or how did you make sure your goals were being achieved while you had other competing priorities for your expenses?

Holden Graves: So of course, I went to the University of Arkansas, so Joe Baker is —

Tim Ulbrich: Yes.

Holden Graves: Was there, and he was —

Tim Ulbrich: Shoutout to Joe.

Holden Graves: He was my professor. Yeah. I know, I still need to get his book, so don’t tell him I haven’t gotten it yet. He really kind of set us up, so that was a really good foundation. And then at the time, he was recommending “Automatic Millionaire,” so it was before y’all had come out with your book. And so that was a big one that I just read that and just like loved this of these people that just kind of never really made that much, and they just saved automatically and paid off stuff and all of a sudden, they had three homes and like $1 million in the bank just because they were automating everything and not thinking about it. So that was a big thing for us. So everything we had was automated. We had our 401k’s automated, we had basically everything coming out of my paycheck, so my paycheck would get deposited every other Thursday. And Friday, we had all of the automatic drafts going towards our different savings accounts and also towards our loan accounts as well.

Tim Ulbrich: Awesome. And we’ll link in the show notes “The Automatic Millionaire” by David Bach. We’ve talked about that on the show before. Also to Joe Bake himself, “Baker’s Dirty Dozen: Principles for financial independence,” excited about that new resource coming out. And I also would add, to our listeners that want to learn more about this concept of automation, one of my favorite books — you’ve probably heard me talk about it before — “I Will Teach You to Be Rich” by Ramit Sethi. He does an awesome job of actually getting in the weeds on kind of what could this look like from a system standpoint and how can you implement it? And I think for many people, the idea of it seems more complicated than the actual implementation process. So I’d recommend those resources. Before I ask you guys about hey, what’s ahead now that we’ve got this debt paid off, we’re in the home, I wanted to, Holden, for a moment go back to the student loans. I didn’t ask you what the strategy was there. Was it staying in the federal system, pay them off? Was it refinance the loans? And any advice you would have for our listeners who are trying to make that distinction or that decision.

Holden Graves: Yeah, absolutely. So we went with the route of refinancing. So I never really thought about getting it to filing or attack this separately or going into the weeds on that. I just looked at what our tax return was and tried to plug that into the REPAYE and PAYE options and just realized that we’d actually be paying more towards the debt doing that than just the standard 10-year payments. So that was never really an option was doing that. And then I didn’t really want to be tied down with one particular company or one particular field, so I didn’t want to be in the Public Service field of five years in, I’ve realized, wow, I don’t really like this, I didn’t want to be stuck in that type of situation. So since we were going to be so aggressive with it, we decided to refinance and got a much lower rate on the refinance. So just kind of went at it that way and paid it off just as much as we could, as quickly as we could.

Tim Ulbrich: That makes sense. And so you know, as we now look at the future and what’s ahead, we’ve got an emergency fund in place, we’ve got student loans paid off, check, we’ve got the cars paid off, check. Obviously you’re in the home, so the down payment happened, check. And you were investing for retirement along the way. So I’d like to hear from both of you, both some of the numeric goals of what’s ahead, where do you guys want to focus on in terms of the x’s and o’s in your financial plan and then perhaps some more of the softer sides of the financial plan, you know, what are you hoping this means for your family going forward? So Amanda, you want to kick us off?

Amanda Graves: Yeah. So now that we’re kind of moving forward as we’ve checked all those boxes, I’ll let Holden speak to more of the financial strategy because he’s better with that. But —

Tim Ulbrich: He’s the nerd. He’s the nerd, right? Let’s be honest.

Holden Graves: That’s it.

Amanda Graves: Oh, he totally is. He totally geeks out on finances, which I love. And he does really great at kind of the future planning where I’m more of the close-in, monitoring the monthly budget. So I’m kind of the —

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Amanda Graves: The monthly person whereas he kind of does everything else. But it’s just been really great to kind of be a partner and seeing those different strategies kind of come to life. And what that means too is it kind of gives us the freedom to do what we want both now and in the future, you know, with saving for our retirement but also we have smaller goals too. We have automatic savings for vacations. So if we decide we want to take a family vacation, it won’t be a big financial stress because we created that savings just so that way, we can do little trips or activities and different things like that.

Tim Ulbrich: And Holden, give us the, you know, what’s the next 3-5 years look like? What’s success look like for you guys going forward now that you’re past this $100,000 of debt?

Holden Graves: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, so we’re just kind of focused right now on just kind of accumulating as much as we can. It’s just kind of where like we don’t have specific 3-year to 5-year goals. We usually go one year at a time. But for the most part, it’s just 3-5 years, we’re still going to get 3-5 years of invested assets to be able to cover us for if anything were to happen or if anything — if one of us needed to take a break or walk away from a job that’s stressful. So that’s kind of the biggest things there. One thing Amanda didn’t mention, though, was actually when we paid off our student loans. We actually paid off our student loans in October of 2019. And our son was born at the end of November that year. So about a month difference, so it actually was — it worked out perfectly because it was just amazing because we really didn’t feel any richer after we paid off the loans because immediately Amanda went on maternity leave. But it really gave her the freedom to take the full 12 weeks off and make sure that she could go back.

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Holden Graves: Now especially, she could decide later on whether she wants to take a smaller role with what she’s doing or just step away altogether. It just kind of gives us the freedom to have those options. So we’re just trying to build up that so that it takes a little bit of the stress off Amanda too so she’s less worried about if she wants to step away or just slow down a little bit with work.

Tim Ulbrich: Freedom and options. Couldn’t have said it better. I think, you know, for you guys, this certainly is the case. You’re moving into what I would say is the offensive part of the financial plan and really being able to build some of the wealth into the future, obviously achieve other goals that you want to achieve and have the freedom and option if for whatever reason, you didn’t want to work or work part-time or to be able to replace some of what would come from a traditional W2 income. So congratulations on the progress of what you guys have made. I’m excited for what lies ahead for you guys as well. And I really appreciate you taking the time to come on the show to share your journey.

Holden Graves: Yeah, thanks for having us on, Tim. It was a pleasure.

Amanda Graves: Thank you so much.

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YFP 149: Crushing $400k of Debt in 5 Years


Crushing $400k of Debt in 5 Years

Tim and Andria Church join Tim Ulbrich to talk about their journey paying off $400,000 of debt in 5 years. They share their motivation behind such an aggressive repayment strategy, how they did it and their plans now that they are debt free.

About Today’s Guests

Tim Church is the Director of Getting Things Done at Your Financial Pharmacist and a clinical pharmacy specialist at the West Palm Beach VA Medical Center.

He is also the author of Seven Figure Pharmacist: How to Maximize Your Wealth, Eliminate Debt, and Create Wealth and When Eating Right Isn’t Enough: The Top 5 Medications to Control Your Type 2 Diabetes.

Andria Church is a pharmacist and Assistant Professor of Pharmacy Practice at Palm Beach Atlantic University. She specializes in neuropsychiatric pharmacy. She is a native Floridian and an alum of the University of Florida and Palm Beach Atlantic University. Andria is also the one in the relationship that made sure fun money was set aside in the budget.

Summary

Tim Church, YFP’s Director of Getting Things Done, and his wife Andria join Tim Ulbrich on this week’s episode. Tim and Andria are both pharmacists and had a combined debt load of $400,000 in student loans. On this episode, they share their journey of why paying off the loans was important to them, how they paid it all off in 5 years, the hardships along the way and what their plans are now that loans are gone.

Tim and Andria expressed being on the same page financially was crucial for the success of their marriage. They had a lot of conversations about their finances before they were engaged. While Tim expresses that he may have not had the best approach to talking about how to tackle their debt, they found a balance that worked for them.

Their why behind paying off $400,000 so quickly came back to other financial goals they had with wanting to give generously, save for a house, have a family in the future, plan for retirement and be able to provide for their children and future generations of their family. When they had a difficult time with the sacrifices they were making to take down their debt, they would come back to their why to keep them motivated.

In order to achieve such an audacious goal, Tim explains that they had to pull every lever they could. To start, they minimized their expenses and didn’t make any big purchases. Andria and Tim lived in a one-bedroom apartment for the first 3 years of their marriage, didn’t have car loans and didn’t acquire any new debt. Then, they looked at how they could earn additional income. Tim took on overtime opportunities at the VA when it was available, worked special projects and had a moonlighting position for a year. All of this additional income was thrown at their loans. They also took advantage of whatever windfall money came their way, like bonus checks, and put it right toward their debt. Finally, Andria and Tim refinanced their loans multiple times over the course of 5 years locking in a lower interest rate each time. Of course, they also had to make sacrifices along the way. Andria explains that they didn’t take lavish trips, eat out a lot, or buy new clothes and accessories. While this was trying at times, Andria said that they had to check themselves to make sure they weren’t playing the comparison game with others in their field and had to remind each other that they were doing what was best for their future together.

Now that the debt is paid off, Tim and Andria feel like a giant weight has been lifted. They are focusing on padding their emergency fund, saving for a house and are hopeful they can give to those in need.

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Episode Transcript

Tim Ulbrich: Hey, what’s up, everybody? Welcome to this week’s episode of the Your Financial Pharmacist podcast. It’s an honor to have joining me Tim and Andria Church to talk about their debt-free story and their journey of payin goff $400,000 of debt in five years. I’ve been waiting for this day to come for some time. Such an awesome story of persistence, of working together and how a clear why can help be the necessary motivation when you have such a big, long-term goal such as paying off $400,000 of debt. So Tim and Andria, welcome to the Your Financial Pharmacist podcast.

Tim Church: Hey, Tim. Thanks for having us.

Andria Church: Hi. Yeah, we’re excited.

Tim Ulbrich: So glad. And Tim, I don’t even know if welcoming — it’s your own podcast. I don’t even know if that’s like the right term. But excited to have you on.

Tim Church: Well, it’s nice to be on the other end sometimes.

Tim Ulbrich: That’s right. So Tim Church, take us back to the beginning. You graduated from NEOMed College of Pharmacy, you start residency training. What type of debtload were you looking at then? And had it hit you yet how significant this would be in terms of the repayment journey?
Tim Church: It just kind of felt normal at that point. I mean, everybody else was in a similar position. And I think right when I hit residency and the grace period had ended, I had accumulated debt from undergrad, three years of undergrad, and then also at NEOMed for the PharmD degree. And after all the interest had capitalized, it was pretty close to about $200,000. So like I said, it didn’t really sink in right in the beginning. I was kind of like, OK, everybody else has this debt. This is what everybody faces starting out, you know, no big deal. It will get paid off eventually.

Tim Ulbrich: And so Andria, when you meet Tim as I understand it if I remember this story right, you are still finishing up pharmacy school.

Andria Church: Yes.

Tim Ulbrich: Two years of residency still ahead of you. Were you thinking about the weight of the loans at this point in time?

Andria Church: No. I was a third-year pharmacy — well, no. I was in between my second and third year of pharmacy school when I met Tim and he had just finished residency. And so no, I wasn’t thinking about it because kind of like Tim said, everybody had — well, not everybody — but the majority of people had student loans. It was just something that you “had to do” to go to graduate doctoral school. And I remember in undergrad getting this advice. We had some professional financial person come and give a talk at a student organization geared towards students going into the healthcare field. And he had said something that just always stuck with me, which is probably why I didn’t worry about it. He said, “You need to continue to live like a student for the first couple of years after you graduate because you’ll get this massive paycheck and want to live the bigger lifestyle. But you’re going to have these student loans.” So in the back of my mind, it was always the thought, yeah, I’m going to continue to live below my means. So I didn’t feel the weight of it yet, but that’s also probably because I was still a student and I’m like, I just need to focus on graduating, I need to focus on getting a residency. So I wasn’t really thinking about the full weight of what it was going to feel like when I actually had to start paying it off.

Tim Ulbrich: And I know Tim’s good looking, but my gosh. You signed up for this. You said, I’ve got a lot of debt, he’s got a lot of debt, we’re in this together. But I want our listeners to hear, like how did you guys handle this conversation before you got married? And why was that so important to ultimately get to a point where you really treated the debt as ours versus it’s just my debt?

Tim Church: Yeah, it’s a great question, Tim. And I’ll be honest and say, before we got married and when things started clicking for me in terms of wanting to get into a better position and thinking about how I was going to pay off my loans and just making better decisions overall, I thought about this question very hard. And I knew it was going to be very important that if we were going to get married that we — even before we got married, we had to be on the same page with how we were going to look at finances and how we were going to make decisions together to reach those goals together. But the problem was is that in the beginning, I didn’t say it very nicely like that. I wasn’t thinking about oh, let’s look at our goals and dreams together. It was more like, hey, this is what’s going to happen. And are you on board? So I’ll admit that I had the worst approach that you can have with finances and being in a relationship in terms of how to figure out how to be on the same page and know that that’s going to work together because as you mentioned, like it’s a really important part of a relationship. And a lot of marriages and things like that suffer because people cannot come to agreements.

Andria Church: And we were doing — we had that conversation before we were even engaged. We knew that we were on the path, we wanted to get married. And so we started doing a prep for marriage at our church, and there was a financial component. And then we wanted to also take a finance class. And so that very eloquently delivered line from Tim happened before we were even engaged. And it was — it was a large argument that at the time was very frustrating that now we can laugh at because we ended up being on the same page. But yeah, it was just kind of at the time, he got more on board with it first before I did. I, again, I don’t think I had full understanding and I’m thinking, oh yeah, I’ll have to make sacrifices. But I’ll still be able to have some fun and buy things that I want whereas Tim’s like completely gung ho and is ready to just give up everything.

Tim Ulbrich: So Andria, to that point, in all seriousness, we talk — and I give Tim a hard time — but we talk on the show about he’s the all-in kind of person, right? I mean, Tim Church operates at one level, and that’s full speed, you know, whether that’s the awesome work he does with YFP, paying off student loans. And I want to talk about this for a moment because I think, you know, both sides of this, it’s really important to understand how to effectively work with the other person. And what advice would you have, Andria, for those that are listening that are trying to work with this, on this financial piece, whether it’s student loans or another part, and they’re doing it with somebody esle that is all-in, kind of one speed? What advice would you have to make that work from your perspective?

Andria Church: Well I think just reminding the person that it’s about striking a balance. Like it took me some time to realize that we were — we wanted the same goals and we both agreed that being on the same page about our finances was critically important for the success of our future marriage. But I think it’s coming to a middle ground, somewhere in between there, realizing that I needed to get a little bit more on board with his point of view but that he also needed to do the same with mine, that if we were just so gung ho all the way in that direction that we were not going to have any enjoyment or celebrate things throughout the course of those first couple years of our marriage that were worthy of being celebrated, you know, that maybe didn’t — we weren’t going to have a big blowout celebration and go on a big trip, but maybe splurge a little bit on a fancy or something like that versus if we would go all the way to my side, we would not have paid off the loans in five years. So we needed to both reach a middle ground. And it took awhile, a lot of conversations, a lot of really meaningful and long discussions. And over time, honestly just through practicing and just having open communication with each other, we reached that middle ground. I’m way better and more in line with the finances than I was when we were having those initial discussions. And Tim will also be one to admit that he’s glad that I forced us to have some fun and take a moment to pause and really celebrate those small victories that we were having, whether it was getting the student loans off, celebrating our anniversary, or just those things that were really important during those first five years of marriage that we can’t go back and redo. So it was just, honestly just having open communication with each other and expressing frustrations and how we feel about the situation to really ultimately work together and be successful.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, and I’m so glad, Andria, you know, the word that I took away from there was really balance. And I love how you framed that in the first five years of marriage. I mean, obviously there’s strength in being in the position you are now going forward. But making sure — I mean, that’s no short period of time. It’s not like you guys were paying this off for three months. I mean, five years. And it’s a lot of money. And we’ll talk about more of the numbers and the x’s and o’s. But I think striking a balance. So Tim, as you reflect on this journey with that word balance in mind, you know, when you look back, what are some of the things that helped you get to that point of finding that balanc? And perhaps what would you go back and tell yourself to maybe be more balanced even early on?

Tim Church: Yeah, I think one of the things that we did was after we paid off about $10,000 in student loan debt, we tried to have little celebrations, like Andria said, going out to dinner, maybe even doing like stay at a hotel down in Fort Lauderdale, not too far away, or something like that. And I think the other thing that really helped is one thing that we tried to still do during this time is go and visit family and friends but do it in a very frugal way I’ll say and just be very tactical about how we did that. So I think that was really important, like reflecting back. If I could say what is the one thing that I would not have changed was that and probably should have even considered doing more of that because those are the things that really, we’re never going to regret because we can’t get the time back.

Tim Ulbrich: Love it. Love it. So let’s transition, Andria, to the why for the two of you. We talk about this on the show all the time, the importance of having a why and motivation behind your financial plan. And here, we’re talking about paying off a massive amount of debt and, again, no small feat, five years, lots of difficult conversations. So so important to have a why and a purpose. For you and Tim, what is the why? What’s the motivation behind so aggressively paying off this debtload and getting to the point of being debt-free?

Andria Church: I think the why was just that we had other financial goals and desires that we have for our life together. We wanted to be able to give generously and abundantly to all of those around us and even people that we didn’t know. And in order to do that, we knew that the debt needed to be gone. And it also just was this constant weight that we felt on our shoulders that it was there and felt like we couldn’t really fully enjoy things or take certain luxuries because we would look at it and say, “OK, is this a need to or a want to?” You know, a have to or a want to. And we had to make some of those tough calls that if it wasn’t a have to and it wasn’t a true need, you know, putting that money then towards the debt in the long run, that was going to help us get to those goals quicker. Aside from being able to give abundantly to others, being able to get a house and plan for our future family and retirement, I mean, really long-term vision goals and just also being able to want to provide for our future children when they go off to school and even thinking about grandkids and like just the future generations of the family that we would be creating together. So all of those things was really the long-term vision, even though sometimes on the day-to-day grind, it was hard. You might lose sight of those and think, why are we doing this? Maybe we should just spend a little bit more money. Is it really going to make a big deal in the long run? And I think what really kept us on track was that big why and the fact that we both were on the same page about it and felt the same way and wanted to achieve that goal together.

Tim Church: Even though we had disagreements along the way.

Andria Church: Yes. Not to paint a rose-colored vision of it because yes, there were disagreements.

Tim Ulbrich: And I hear there’s a cat in the future? Is that true? Now that we’re debt-free, is that happening?

Andria Church: Yes, that was the long-term promise that I was going to be allowed to get a cat once we were debt-free, even though despite my best efforts to convince Tim that we needed a cat much earlier on in our marriage. Yeah, that is a goal that is happening.

Tim Ulbrich: That’s awesome. Tim, let’s talk x’s and o’s for a minute when it comes to repayment. You know, you’re the student loan expert, and we’re going to talk a little bit in a moment about the book that you have coming out. And we talk all the time on the show about there are so many options in the federal system. You’ve got forgiveness, non-forgiveness, income-driven repayment, standard 10-year repayment. Then you’ve got the whole host of options in the refinance market. And how overwhelming this can be. So when we talk about $400,000 of deb tin five years, what was the repayment strategy? And as you look back, was that the best one?

Tim Church: Yeah. In the very beginning, I didn’t really know what all my options were. And unfortunately, we didn’t — I didn’t have a strong background with my family, friends or people that were very knowledgeable about this area nor did I have a very strong capstone or discussion, really, on student loans and what those options were. So you know, for the longest time in my mind, it was just kind of get rid of them as fast as possible, you know, however you can make it happen. When I look back at this point — and I talk about this in the book obviously with my story — that not considering forgiveness given my situation was a big mistake. I mean, it really costs — there’s a huge opportunity cost to not doing that. It’s great that the debt is paid off and it’s no longer here, but I probably could have been in a better financial position after 10 years than after being in — after the five years that we were married. So there were definitely some things that I reflect on and would say I wish I could have went a little bit of a different way. However, being intentional about trying to get rid of the student loans as soon as possible, you know, we basically utilized, pulled every lever, used every tactic that we could. So obviously the biggest thing is how do you cut back on expenses? How do you minimize those? So one of the key things I think that really helped for us is really looking at those big purchases. So we lived in a one-bedroom apartment for the first three years of our marriage. And you know, we live in south Florida, so it’s definitely not cheap to live here. It’s not as expensive as some other areas, but it’s certainly not cheap. But we made that big sacrifice and definitely got a lot of questions about why we were doing that based on our income. But I think that was actually really huge because we were able to save on those costs. We never — once my car was paid off really early on in the first year of marriage, I think it was right around there, we didn’t really have any car loans, so we had no debt coming from there. So I think we were very fortunate that beyond — really, we just had the student loans that we were working with and didn’t acquire any new debt with credit cards or other things like that. So starting out, those were kind of some of the big tactics. And then I would say the other one along the way was just looking at ways that I could earn additional income. So I did work overtime when it was available through the VA. I took on different special projects that came up. And then I eventually did a moonlighting position for about a year and a half. And that really helped accelerate things because I was just chunking all of that additional money towards the loans, so just making as big of payments as possible. And then I would say — so if you look at those as being kind of the top big strategies, then there’s a couple other things that I think really were in our favor during this time. So what do I mean by that? Well, one of the things is really taking advantage of windfalls. So you don’t know exactly when you’re going to get bonus checks. You don’t know when you’re going to get unexpected money like cashing out a life insurance that you might not necessarily need or stock options you didn’t know that you had that are not in retirement that you don’t really want anymore or for the time being it’s more important to pay off the loans. So all of these things that we never expected were going to be given to us, we really took those and just threw it right at the debt. We never even thought about it as well, how could we spend that money? It was just like, let’s put a massive dent in this student loan — in these student loans. So I think that was key. And then finally, one of the things is obviously refinancing for us. We did that multiple times throughout the five years. And when you look at it, the amount of interest that you pay can be pretty massive. I mean, looking back for awhile, federal student loan interest rates were anywhere in the 6-8% range. And that can really tack onto those payments that you’re making every month. So it makes it hard to really attack the principle. So we were very fortunate that throughout that five years, we continued to find better rates each time that we refinanced. So even though it wasn’t I would say as huge of a lever as some of the other things that we did, it was still really important and really helped us accelerate.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, one of the things, Tim, I love that you said in that was having clarity on where windfalls would come. And you gave some great examples of that. And to me, that goes back to being crystal clear on your goals and having a prioritized list of goals so when that windfall comes, you know exactly what you’re trying to achieve with that and then it feels like you’re hitting the accelerator on that goal, which I think just further provides momentum, obviously. One of the things I want to pull from the book, Tim — and we’re going to talk about this on an upcoming episode in much more detail — so for those that don’t yet know, we’re getting ready to release “The Pharmacist’s Guide to Conquering PharmD Student Loans: How to confidently choose the best payoff strategy that saves you the most money” written by Tim Church. And in there, you say — and this comes from the introduction — you say, “but once that highly anticipated moment had come and gone,” referring to hitting submit on that last payment, “feelings other than happiness and relief set in, ones that I didn’t necessarily expect or want. I was angry and frustrated. I had some major regrets.” What I love about that as I read through the book is I feel like you’ve evaluated and understand all of the options that are on the table. And obviously here you are on the back end, you’ve got an awesome success story and certainly a bright future ahead. But I think by navigating this, by understanding the ins and outs of all of these repayment options, you’ve been able to package that in a way that is very easy to understand for a topic that is not so easy to understand. And so we’ll talk more about the book in an upcoming episode, but I think you’ve got some great wisdom in there. I’m excited to share that with the YFP community. So Andria, $400,000 of debt in five years. So I want to break this down for a minute. That’s $80,000 per year on average, $6,667 per month on average, $1,538 per week on average, and $219 per day on average. I had to triple check my math when I did that because I saw those numbers and I’m like, oh my gosh. $219 per day on average over five years. That’s really incredible when you think about how accelerated that is and obviously how much of that was ultimately going to principle to be able to minimize the interest that was accruing. So question here is when you’re doing that, even on two pharmacists’ income, it doesn’t matter. That is big sacrifice. We’re talking about $6,667 per month, which essentially for many pharmacists is about the equivalent of a full pharmacist’s salary net income going towards student loan debt. So talk to me about the sacrifices that you had to make to be able to pay off that much debt and obviously free up cash flow each and every month to get there.

Andria Church: Well as Tim mentioned a little bit ago, both of our cars had been paid off. So we did not go out and get new cars. We’ve had — my car is, she’s going to be 11 this year. And Tim’s is a little bit younger but also getting up there in age. So we still have the same cars that we’ve had all this time. So didn’t buy new cars, didn’t go and buy a condo or a house, didn’t go on big lavish trips, even though it’s a goal of ours to travel throughout the United States and internationally. As Tim said, we would take trips to visit family and friends, those critical moments that we didn’t want to look back and miss out on. But taking a dream trip or a trip for extended periods of time, that didn’t happen. For me, buying clothes or accessories or other things that I wanted, that didn’t happen either. And same for Tim, although Tim is less into stuff. I will admit that I am a stuff person. I like things, even though I like experiences too. And you know, also just simple things like cutting back on going out to dinner. We realized so quickly how expensive food is. Not just groceries, but just eating out. And also for me too, I love going out to get coffee. So also having to scale back on that and realizing I can’t be going to buy coffee every day outside of the house. And so something as simple as that, which is just a couple of bucks, right? But that adds up. And Tim would always say something to me that sometimes would resonate and kind of snap me back into reality, you know, death by a thousand cuts. Like I would say, “Oh, it’s only $5. What’s the big deal?” But $5 over multiple periods of time, you know, that could really add up. And so it — it was thinking about the why, it helped stay motivated, helped us stay motivated and helped keep me on track. But there were definitely days where I had the fear of missing out, the FOMO that I would look at our friends or other people who were pharmacists that were friends or other healthcare professionals, people making equal salaries or more to what we were making and just feeling like are we ever going to get there? How old are we going to be when we finally — what I felt like was really start our life? Like are we just going to be in this one bedroom, one bathroom apartment forever? We couldn’t have people stay with us. It was always a challenge and having grown adults sleeping on an air mattress just at a certain point just seemed ridiculous. So it was hard. I’m not going to pretend like even though we were on the same page that making these sacrifices wasn’t a challenge. And we had to constantly remind ourselves to not play the comparison game. And certainly in the day and age of social media, it doesn’t help. And you really have to put yourself in check and just say, “OK, but this is what Tim and I are doing. This is what we’ve decided together that we want to do for our marriage, that we want to do for our future. And in the long run, isn’t that what’s more important than the outfit that I really feel like I need but that I don’t really need?” You know? Is that more important than throwing money towards the student loans. So those were just definitely some challenges that we had to really look at and face and talk about. And we shared that with each other, frustrations like ah, I wish we could go do this or buy this or have this. And OK, yeah, but babe, remember we want to stay on track. And ironically, there were moments where I was the tougher one, reminding Tim and saying, “OK, babe, we can’t be spending that money on that. We need to put it towards the loans.” So yeah, it was tough.

Tim Ulbrich: Such wisdom there, and I hope our listeners are encouraged by that and hear the reality of obviously the excitement and the joy but also the challenges along the way. Now, being in south Florida before and having been able to experience the famous Pub Sub from Publix, I honestly — I don’t think I could control myself to cut that out of my budget. So kudos to you guys if you were able to do that. But for those that haven’t been to south Florida, haven’t been to Publix, it may be worth the trip just to go there and get the Pub Sub from Publix. So Tim Church, let me ask you about kind of handling the debt in the context of other goals. So obviously I’ve got a little bit of an insider view in your story and I know that you were ultimately able to refinance to a really, really low interest rate with First Republic and that offer. And so I think some people may struggle with should I — if I have a really low interest rate, should I be going all in on the debt? Or when I get to a fixed interest like that that’s so low, should I be prioritizing other goals like saving for the future? So talk to us about how you found that balance and ultimately came to that decision.

Tim Church: Yeah, I think early on when we first started paying off the debt, it was kind of like, forget retirement, forget everything else, we’re going all-in. And you know, once we kind of realized how long we were going to be in this, we really didn’t want to go five years without putting any money towards retirement. So one of the things that I think was great along the way is we were still saving for retirement. So we both have matches at work, so we made sure that we contributed enough to get our matches. And then we also did a fully funded Health Savings Account every year that we were able to and that I had it because, you know, really looking at that as another retirement account but also some of the tax benefits. So that worked for us. And I know everyone has a lot of different opinions about how aggressive to kind of be on that timeline. You know, you have a lot of people that will prolong the time to pay off their debt because of the other things. And you know, we wanted to kind of find a balance that worked for us. So we were still doing something but also really after that being as aggressive as we could. You mentioned in that final year, so we didn’t even know about First Republic, and they’re a bank that’s in very specific locations, so New York, south Florida, California and some other areas. But they offer ridiculously low interest rates. So we actually — it was on Andria’s loan, but we were obviously as you talked about were paying it off together, that her loan for a five-year fixed interest rate was down to 1.95%. But what’s crazy is not only that, they will pay you back up to 2% of the interest that you pay if you pay it back within four years, which is like unheard of. So that was actually a struggle. We actually had quite a few discussions about that, like look, we could start saving, getting a down payment on a house, going let’s let these ride for four years, pay it back over four years because the interest rate is so low. I mean, that really was a tough decision. I mean, to go, still go all-in and pay that off. And I think what we ultimately came to the same conclusion is, yes, there are certainly benefits there. But that emotional weight and that anxiety that the loans were still having on us, getting rid of that outweighed any potential mathematical advantage behind it. And obviously sometimes it’s tough for somebody from the outside to look at that, but that was really kind of where we were.

Andria Church: And we just felt like we could see the end of the finish line. And so like what Tim was saying is just knowing OK, yeah, we could hold onto it. But we’re so close. And we’re just like, let’s just get this out of our lives, that that meant more to us than yes, possibly being able to prolong the loan payoff and save for a house, for example. We just, we had put it in our mind that this was something that we were going to do, that we wanted to definitely have it paid off before we had any kids, which of course we’re like, OK, we might not have control over that, but that was like a goal we really wanted. And so it’s like, let’s just meet this goal. We want to get this over with.

Tim Ulbrich: And I think, Tim, you do a nice job of this in the book, you know, talking about obviously the x’s and o’s and strategies but layering on top of that the emotional part, the things we talk about: How do you feel about the debt? And what’s the momentum and the velocity of that momentum worth? And it’s hard to put a dollar amount to that, but it has to be evaluated as one is considering the repayment strategy. So Andria, we have the class of 2020 that is coming out as we publish this episode. And I think they’re coming out in very unique times obviously with what’s going on with COVID-19, some uncertainty around the job market and obviously just the challenges and the times that we’re in, high debt loads, all the variables we know that they’re facing. And certainly we know they’re going to do great things with the opportunities they have as well. What advice would you have — looking back several years when you walked across that stage, what advice would you have for those students that are coming out in the class of 2020 as they get ready to make this transition into new practitioner life?

Andria Church: I would say to definitely consider all of their repayment options, kind of like Tim alluded to that he feels — has regret over not making certain decisions. And I was in the same boat. You know, we both were like, let’s just get it paid off, which there’s nothing wrong with that but just really researching and kind of digging down to figure out what are their options depending on what career that they are stepping into. Is it the private sector? Are they going to be working for the government, etc.? And then two, just also being willing to make some sacrifices that you’re going to step into a job that has a huge salary and it’s going to look very glamorous. And when you get that paycheck because it’s going to be more money than likely you’ve ever made, and the pull, the lifestyle tug is going to be there, the FOMO, you know, maybe peers that didn’t have loans that are living it up a little bit bigger because they’re financially able to. That tug and that temptation is going to be there. But that — just to think about what are your long-term financial goals? Do you want to have this debt hanging around for decades? Or are you willing to make some sacrifices? You know, yes, celebrate this huge victory that you just did, that you earned your PharmD, that you’re getting your first big adult job or maybe it’s your second one if it’s a second career. Celebrate that. There’s nothing wrong with that. Treat yourself a little bit. But be willing to make some sacrifices and not compare yourself. As long as you are on the right track and you feel like you are being a good steward of your money, then that’s what really matters. And if you’re in a relationship with someone that you and the other person are also on the same page with your finances. So to me, it doesn’t matter if you’re — it’s just you or it’s you and another person, that you’re making the best and smartest decisions for your financial future.

Tim Ulbrich: Awesome. I love that. Tim Church, so we go back to the numbers here. $6,667 per month on average over a five-year period to pay off $400,000 of debt. You hit submit on the last payment, you no longer have to send in on average $6,667 per month. So what’s the game plan going forward? What goals are ahead as you guys look at kind of this life after being debt-free?

Tim Church: Yeah, I mean, like I said, I had some bittersweet thoughts after it kind of happened. But I mean, it definitely just feels like an immense weight is off of us. And it’s just nice that that payment’s not automatically drafted out of the bank account. And so I mean, one of the things is obviously we let loose a little bit. You know, Andria wanted to have a little bit of a shopping spree, so we made that happen. You know, we’ve done some things that we wanted to do that weren’t as intense. So that was really nice. And then really padding the emergency fund was our next big goal that we wanted to do. And then really right after, as we kind of finalized and get that buttoned up is really the next thing is going for a house is one of our big goals.

Tim Ulbrich: Time to be on the offense, right? It’s exciting times.

Tim Church: Yeah. And I think the other thing — and Andria mentioned this a little before — is just the ability to be more generous. I mean, I think that everyone is coming from a different position. But I think that when you have a sound financial plan and you’re in a position to give and help others, you know, that’s something that we truly believe in. And sometimes that may be something that’s planned for and that is continuous, but there’s also going to be opportunities that you may not even know that are going to come up, whether that’s family members, friends or complete strangers you don’t know. And that’s something that we’re looking forward to, to be able to do that.

Tim Ulbrich: I love that. And thank you both so much for taking time to share your story. I know it’s been an inspiration to me and it will be to many in the community, whether those that have achieved that journey or are in the midst of it or students that are listening and thinking about what’s ahead. So proud of you guys for the journey that you’ve had and excited for what lies ahead for your family and those that are going to be positively impacted by your generosity. So thank you so much for taking time to share your story.

Tim Church: Thanks, Tim.

Andria Church: Thank you.

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YFP 144: How Two Pharmacists Paid Off $214k of Student Loans in 17 Months


How Two Pharmacists Paid Off $214k of Student Loans in 17 Months

Levi Ellison, PharmD, shares how he and his wife paid off $214,594.55 of student loans over 17 months. Levi talks about the motivations behind such an aggressive repayment strategy, how they were able to do it and what they hope to accomplish now that they are debt free.

About Today’s Guest

Levi Ellison has been married to his loving wife, Jessica Ellison, since the summer of 2018 following their May graduation from the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences College of Pharmacy in Little Rock. While in pharmacy school Levi was a winning team member of the 2017 Good Neighbor Pharmacy National Community Pharmacy Association Pruitt-Schutte Student Business Plan. Immediately following graduation he received a $20,000 sign on bonus for a 2-year commitment to work in his hometown of Mena, Arkansas as a staff pharmacist at Walgreens. He serves as a Sunday school teacher for young adults at Salem Baptist Church, Treasurer of the Polk County Republican Committee, and served as a Financial Peace University Coordinator. He enjoys running, traveling with his wife, spending time with his family, and being debt free!

Summary

Levi Ellison shares his remarkable story of how he and Jessica, his wife who is also a pharmacist, paid off $214,594.55 of student loan debt over 17 months. While in school, Levi and Jessica were pretty aware of how much money they were taking out and knew that they didn’t feel good about taking out more than they needed. That mentally paired with some scholarships allowed them to both graduate under the average debt load that most pharmacists carry.

They were motivated by Joe Baker’s personal finance class in pharmacy school and by Dave Ramsey’s book Total Money Makeover. Following the Dave Ramsey approach, they knew that they wanted to attack their debt in a gazelle-like fashion so that they could move on to other financial goals that are important to them. By following a strict budget and using a budgeting app called EveryDollar along with a homemade allocated spending budget, they were able to pay off $214,594.55 in 17 months while tithing 10% of their gross income to their church. This payoff breaks down to:

$151,478.51/year

$12,623.21/month

$2,899.93/week

$414.28/day

Levi discusses how they worked together as a team to accomplish this goal and what their plans are now that they aren’t spending over $12,000 a month on student loans.

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Episode Transcript

Tim Ulbrich: Hey, what’s up, everybody? Welcome to this week’s episode of the Your Financial Pharmacist. Excited to welcome Levi Ellison onto the show to share his debt-free story. Levi, welcome and thank you for taking the time.

Levi Ellison: Thank you, Tim. It’s great to be with you.

Tim Ulbrich: So grateful that you reached out to share your incredible story of paying off a lot of debt, a lot of debt, in a really, really short period of time. When I first heard about your story, you and your wife Jessica tackling over $214,000 of debt over 17 months, I thought to myself, wow, what an amazing accomplishment. And I can’t wait to hear exactly more of the details about how you accomplished this and why you were so aggressive in your repayment. And I’m excited to share this with the YFP community as well. So let’s start. Can you share a little bit of background about you and your wife Jessica, where you went to school and then ultimately the work that you’re doing now?

Levi Ellison: Yes. So my wife and I, Jessica, we went to the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences. And that’s in Little Rock, Arkansas. We met in school there, pretty much simultaneously there and our church and in Sunday school. So we were in the same classes, we were in the same church, so we’re doing everything together and ended up getting married the summer following pharmacy school. And on our honeymoon, we got a — I received a sign-on bonus from Walgreens and that was a substantial figure and if you don’t mind me sharing, I’ll just tell the YFP community, it was $20,000. And that sounds awesome and it sounds great. It’s like, wow, you could put $20,000 straight towards loans. But once it hits your bank account, it suspiciously looked like $13,000.

Tim Ulbrich: The tax.

Levi Ellison: Yeah, yeah. It was terrible. But that day it hit our account on our honeymoon. As soon as we got home, we put that all towards loans. And that really got the ball rolling. And we were, you know, obviously very intense with the way we paid off loans just from the get-go and never looking back I think really set up a strong foundation for us.

Tim Ulbrich: So and I want to make sure our audience understands, so two pharmacists, obviously.

Levi Ellison: Yes. Right.

Tim Ulbrich: But nonetheless, as people start to translate this to their personal situation, something I mentioned to you before the show, is I did that for me, two pharmacists’ income, there’s only so much take-home pay. So when we talk about, you know, figures like $12,600 roughly per month over that 17-month period on average, that means there was a lot of sacrifice, a lot of cutting of expenses and obviously now you’re on the back end of that, and we’ll talk about the journey between, but nonetheless, two pharmacists’ income does not necessarily just mean that this was an easy path. And so I want to re-emphasize that. Now, one of the things, Levi, I often wonder is we don’t talk much about the accrual phase of the debt. You know, we talk about the debt paydown part of it, but for someone who clearly had very strong motivations right after school to get this paid off, I’m wondering, I’m guessing many of our listeners are wondering, well, what did you think about this while you were in school? Did it really dawn on you? Did it bother you? And as you look back, what strategies did you take or could you have taken to mitigate some of that damage rather than obviously what we’re going to talk a lot about as the payoff part?

Levi Ellison: Tim, that’s a fantastic question, no kidding. I love to answer that. So for me, during school, you know, the first time I signed up for a student loan was my first year of pharmacy school. I took out $20,000. And I thought, phew, this hurts, as I’m sure most of us experienced. I don’t think I like this. And I didn’t. And it started to wear on me. You know, your first year, you’re thinking, I’m just excited to be here.

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Levi Ellison: But as you — if you log in maybe once every couple years during pharmacy school and you look, you’re kind of shocked. And I was. And so they did a few small scholarships while I was in school, and I applied for those. Got $1,000 here, $1,000 there. But when you’re talking about the kind of numbers that pharmacy school costs, that’s just not a huge percentage. Every bit helps, but my fourth year of school, they have like a — I don’t know what you would call it — but an ultimate scholarship. It was $15,000 from UAMS that they give away to one student. And I applied for that, had to write an essay, and I got it. And that was really helpful, you know? I could have been more in debt than I was. And so I got that, and then I also applied for a rural scholarship where our Arkansas State Board of Pharmacy, if you’ll go and work in an area of I think it’s 15,000 or less people — I forget all the details. But I know my hometown qualified, and so I was like, I’m going to go back home anyway if they’re going to pay me to do it. I’ll take $15,000 for that and go. And so — it was $15,000 for the scholarship. I got $7,500 from the state board. And so that was over the course of a couple years of pharmacy school, so that helped mitigate some of my own student loans.

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Levi Ellison: And then my wife, I think she was fiscally conservative too. And I know she’s going to be listening to this. But I was able to get some of those things, and so that helped on my side. So it wasn’t like I just came out of school and suddenly noticed that I had debt. I mean, I was realizing this and had I known it while I was in undergrad — because we both came out of undergrad debt-free completely. And so that was helpful. But if I’d have really thought this through, I would have started earlier.

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Levi Ellison: So if there’s aspiring pharmacists out there that are listening to this show and wonder how they can get through school debt-free, be smart is going to be some of the things I’m sure we’re going to talk about as far as budgeting and saving and I wish I’d have done more of that earlier.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, and you and I both know from personal experience just how interest accrues on those loans, especially when you’re in graduate school, unsubsidized loans. And I think what you said is really profound — I felt the same way. You’re in school the first year, you’re excited about the opportunity, you’re not really thinking much about it or what this will be at the end. And what it sounds like, though, what I heard there, Levi, is that you guys really did some things in terms of scholarships and you mentioned the rural piece that allowed you to be in less debt than you could have been.

Levi Ellison: Yes.

Tim Ulbrich: I mean, if we look at the averages now, graduates today roughly $170,000. So if we’re going to multiply that by two, obviously you guys worked with a lot of debt, but you were for two pharmacist graduates, you were below the average when you combine the two of those together. So but I think wisdom there, you know, students that are listening, you know, that’s what we kind of always preach is hey, anything that you can be doing to minimize the amount that’s borrowed, even if it seems insignificant, you know, if it’s $18,000 a semester instead of $20,000 a semester, that compounds because of interest and multiple semesters over time.

Levi Ellison: Right. Yeah, if I could add one other tidbit to that, Tim —

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Levi Ellison: We both worked while we were in school. I think that’s important not only just financially but just learning. If you want to be a good pharmacist, I don’t think your first day behind the counter ought to be the day you get your license. And so that was helpful as well, clearly, for both of us.

Tim Ulbrich: Absolutely. Yeah, and I think that’s another good reminder, even if that hourly wage doesn’t seem super significant in the scheme of things, it adds up. I want to talk for a moment about the education piece — and a shoutout here to Joe Baker, who we’ve had on the show, has been long in the financial education space at UAMS I think teaching that personal finance elective course since 1999 and has had what I interpret to be a very profound impact on many students coming out of that program and his teachings. And I sense the same here. So tell me a little bit about that class, the personal finance elective that he taught. And what were some of the big takeaways and ultimately what impact that had on your own personal journey?

Levi Ellison: Yeah, so Joe Baker is a tremendous teacher. He gets in there and really makes the class engage. And that was a big reason I guess why I learned so much in there. And I do owe a lot of influence and credit to him for our story. That’s where we picked up the book “The Total Money Makeover” by Dave Ramsey and I’m sure we’ll get into kind of the steps of how we got out of debt, and that was very influential and we followed that to a T. But Joe, he — I tell you what, Tim, I mean, he cares about students and he cared about me and he still checks in with me from time to time. You know how you can sort emails on your phone or on your computer?

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah.

Levi Ellison: And I’ve got a separate little inbox for him and so I can read through all his financial stuff that he sends out, updates and things to do and not to do and just staying engaged with money. And it’s not like something that you read 24/7, but as long as you’re staying up-to-date on stuff, you can really make big differences. And we did, anyway. Yeah, love Joe.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah. I sense he’s a great teacher and he’s actually working on a book right now and as I’m reading through it, I feel like it’s just spewing with wisdom of multiple years of experience and his teachings to many students along the way. One of the things you said in the email that you and I had connected prior to the interview was the impact of learning things like Time Value of Money and other things. And so I think this is again just a great reminder for students listening, if you have that opportunity like an elective if you’re in college, taking advantage of that. I think it just brings the topic front and center and develops that passion hopefully towards learning. But if not, going out there and finding it. You know, podcasts, blogs, sites that are out there, courses that are out there that can help you learn more about this. So let’s get into the x’s and the o’s. So I’m going to break down the numbers again of what you guys were working with. Total debt load — or excuse me — a total payoff of $214,594.55, but who’s counting, right, with the $.55?

Levi Ellison: Right.

Tim Ulbrich: And if we average that out a little bit more about $151,000 per year, a little over $12,600 per month, $2,900 per week, over $400 per day. That per day is the one that my gosh, when you see that number, you’re like, holy cow.

Levi Ellison: Yeah, that floored both of us because we didn’t realize because you don’t write that check every day.

Tim Ulbrich: Yes.

Levi Ellison: We wrote it every two weeks when we got paid.

Tim Ulbrich: So as I alluded to already, I see that number, $12,600 per month. Even on two pharmacists’ salary, that is incredible. There is only so much take-home pay to work with. So talk us through how you did it. It sounds like the baby steps were a big part of this. But even more details about the budget and kind of how you and Jessica worked together, really each and every month, and I’m sure it was even more often than that.

Levi Ellison: Sure. So I think budget is the key as far as how we were able to do it. More importantly when you get into kind of the nitty-gritty of how we budgeted, is we learned something called an allocated spending plan. And so every two weeks, I have a little Excel chart. I’m a big nerd, so I love looking at this thing. We, you know, just put the money in our checking account in the top line and then we subtracted everything else that was essential, you know, from electric bill, water bill, all your normal stuff, wherever your money’s going to go for the next two weeks. And then whatever money was left over, we immediately, as soon as that hit our checking account, we would put it towards the loan because we knew every day that was passing was about $30 in interest being added. And so if you do it one day sooner, you save $30. I mean, it’s not a full $30 because you’re not getting it all, but that mindset. And so that was how we did it is we just, we said these things are what we have to have. And I can tell you, Tim, over the course of those 17 months, we can count on one hand how many times we ate out on our dime. Our parents took us from time to time, her family would take us, mine would, you know, that sort of thing. But as far as just going even fast food, no. We planned very carefully. I can remember — and we bought a few things that we had to have or at least we thought we did like Jessica’s phone broke, so we went to the AT&T store and I can remember it’s about an 80-mile drive from where we are out in rural Arkansas. And we get there to the AT&T store and we’re like, should we eat lunch before we go in or after? We’re like, well, the food will probably get hot because it’s in the car in our lunch boxes. And so we’re sitting there, eating a sandwich in the AT&T store. We’re like, this is going to be worth it.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah.

Levi Ellison: And I can tell you, it is so worth it now. We look back on that, we laugh, like that was so funny. And now when we go there for traveling, we can go out to eat and have all the chips and salsa we want, you know.

Tim Ulbrich: That’s right.

Levi Ellison: It’s fun.

Tim Ulbrich: And I think there’s something fun about the journey, right? I’m sure for you and Jessica, that brought you guys together in a different way and obviously I can tell just as I hear you talking, you’re reflecting on that together. It was something you accomplished together, and I think that’s a piece we don’t talk enough about is you know, from a marriage standpoint, two people working on something like that and making some sacrifices and working together, that has long, long-term effects, you know, obviously for the good. So I think that’s worth noting as well. Talk to me more about the budget. I’m guessing — I’m wondering, I’m guessing our listeners are wondering as well, it sounds like more of a zero-based budget kind of model.

Levi Ellison: Yes.

Tim Ulbrich: Accounting for every single dollar that you’re earning each and every month. You talked about an Excel spreadsheet.

Levi Ellison: Yes.

Tim Ulbrich: So was this something that you were leading the charge on? You guys were working together? Was it just staying in Excel? Were you utilizing any apps or tools to help you along that process?

Levi Ellison: Oh, those are all good questions. So we used EveryDollar, Dave Ramsey’s budgeting app. And we had the Premium version, and so it would sync with our phones as far as our — of course, we don’t have any credit cards. But it syncs with our debit cards and we could keep track of every single dollar that came out and came in. And that was kind of the goal for the month. And it gets a little confusing. Anybody that’s ever done a budget, you’re like, well, I still have money left over at the end of the month and I haven’t gotten paid yet for the next month. And so like if you’re sitting here, we’re recording this in March and I’m not going to get paid until April such-and-such date or whatever, you’re like, well, how do I budget for that? Because I’ve already got the money in my account, and so that’s where the allocated spending plan really came into play. And so we were on a two-week budget, even if we have goals for the monthly budget and we can throw that into that allocated spending plan, we can just say, OK, let’s spend a couple hundred dollars on clothes this month because we can now or whatever it is. And you take that and say, we’re going to spend it on this check here or you can do it over the course of a couple ones. And so that’s how we managed to keep track of everything. And as far as us doing it together, it was me doing the math and doing all the charts and stuff for the most part. But what I never did was make that finalized. We would come in together for sure every two weeks, and she would look at it and say, OK, I like this, don’t like this, and she would change a few things. But I’d have it ready for her to look at — at least I would try to. It doesn’t always work out perfectly.

Tim Ulbrich: So to that point, I mean, obviously to be able to pay off more than $200,000 in a very short period of time, two people have to be on the same page.

Levi Ellison: Yes.

Tim Ulbrich: But you know, I’m guessing that that doesn’t necessarily mean it was always perfect. Maybe it was.

Levi Ellison: No.

Tim Ulbrich: What was — yeah, what were some of those challenges? And for those that are listening that, you know, may be of a more extreme situation where instead of just a challenge here or there, it’s two people that philosophically — you know, maybe they don’t agree on the goals or the intensity of it. Any words of wisdom there you can share about either challenges you all had or words of advice for others?

Levi Ellison: I don’t think you could have asked a better question. So for two people to be married, you have to be on the same page about money. I don’t know how you couldn’t be. And so this is not something that I just sprung on our honeymoon. We had talked about this beforehand as part of our premarital counseling. And so we were on the same page. And so one thing about us as far as motivation and why would you be so intense about this is we want to be good stewards of what we’ve been given. And so to understand our worldview or our framework that we work in, we’re Christians, and so we’re very involved in our local church. And so along the way, I think this is important for your listeners — we weren’t misers, we gave 10% of our gross income. And so if you factor that in to —

Tim Ulbrich: Absolutely.

Levi Ellison: — how much money we paid back on loans, we could have been out of debt a lot sooner. But we also lived a lot cheaper than some of your listeners are probably thinking, now realizing that we factor in that we make average pharmacist salaries, $120,000-130,000 a year and there’s two of us. And we tithe 10% of that. We gave a lot of money to the church, and that’s not a bragging issue, but it’s something we believed in. And so that’s one of the reasons why we did this so quickly and aggressively and we were on the same page is because we both had the same faith and we both are on the same page about money, and we knew that we wanted to do this. And you’re right about strengthening marriage to go back to the previous question is it surely did. When we look at stuff now, we say, “Yeah, we could do that. That won’t be a problem.” Like we know we can. We’ve done a lot harder stuff together.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, and I think it goes back to you guys had that common thread, you had that common viewpoint, which even if there were moments of maybe month-to-month, you didn’t see eye-to-eye on everything, obviously in a short period of time, you did see eye-to-eye on a lot. But nonetheless, you still had that common lens in which you’re working from. And we always talk about I think the importance of starting with the goal, starting with the why, and then getting into the nitty gritty of the budget because if you can agree on the philosophy, if you can agree on the direction, it’s much easier to agree on OK, in light of the philosophy, let’s talk about this one expense or this one issue.

Levi Ellison: If there’s no why, you’re never going to get to the what of driving a beater.

Tim Ulbrich: Absolutely.

Levi Ellison: And I don’t really consider our cars beaters, but they’re probably worth about $3,000 apiece. And they run just fine. They don’t break down. They’re just little cars, and they do great.

Tim Ulbrich: So speaking of cars, a famous Joe Baker quote, there is not a parade watching you on the way to work.

Levi Ellison: Yes, I love that.

Tim Ulbrich: Which takes me to, you know, this concept of what decisions you guys made in terms of things to forego as you’re talking about making massive student loan payments or $12,600 a month, you’re talking about tithing, giving 10% of gross income throughout this, obviously you had to give up on some things, car being one I’m assuming. But home, other things, talk us through what were the areas that you decided not to spend money on that, you know, might have been difficult as you think about some of the challenges with kind of the peer comparison and keeping up with the Joneses.

Levi Ellison: Yeah. So I guess you could say we gave up on the car, you’re right about that. I’d love to be driving a brand new GMC Sierra. I would love it. But I’m not, and that’s OK. We’re going to pay cash for something like that one day or a slightly used one. And that’s fine because Joe Baker is 100% right. If you can get in the mindset of there’s not a parade watching you go to work, it doesn’t matter. And it’s kind of funny, people notice. One of my coworkers, one of the techs, her daughter asked her, said, “Why is Levi still driving that?” And she was sharing that with me, and it just made me laugh. Like they don’t get it. But you can share with them, say, “There’s a whole goal behind this. We want to be debt-free.” So that was one of the things that we gave up was car. As far as our housing situation, we haven’t bought a home yet. We’re renting, but we’re in a very good, quiet neighborhood. I love running, and so the streets are great for that, very little traffic. So I don’t really feel like we gave up much there. We’re living in a lot better place than the apartments that we both lived in Little Rock over the course of pharmacy school. You know, we have a backyard, a place for our dog, stuff like that. So we gave up a little. We don’t have a tremendous mountain view, we’re kind of in the mountains over here in Western Arkansas, and we look forward to that very soon. That’s one of the things that we’re saving for now. But I don’t feel like we gave up just a whole lot. We just didn’t have extensive dates.

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Levi Ellison: I was talking to my wife and said, “Do you want to share anything about that from your perspective on the show tomorrow morning?” And she said, “Well, we didn’t spend any money on dates.” I said, “That’s not true. I went to Redbox multiple times. I remember that $1.75.”

Tim Ulbrich: I was going to say, it started as a dollar, now it’s $1.75, right? So yeah. But there’s creativity there, right? I mean, again, those are moments that are created together. And I think I want to reiterate some of what you said. I mean, you know, used cars, renting, I think those are probably — if I had to pick two areas, no judgement here, but two areas that I would say often get in the way of being able to achieve other goals, here whether it is student loan repayment, but it could be any other goal, saving for retirement, saving for kids’ college, being able to give whatever, I would say it’s often the home and the car. And I think it’s shifting perspective that renting is not a bad thing. Renting is not evil, you know. You’re not necessarily just throwing money down the drain, and we talked about that on a previous episode with Nate Hedrick and really running the numbers objectively. And used cars, I mean, I think really changing your perspective on Point A to Point B, and one of the best things I heard on this was Ramit Sethi, who wrote a book, “I Will Teach You to Be Rich.” He talks about this concept of money dials. And identifying the things that mean most to you and align with your why and dialing those up. So let’s say for you and your wife Jessica, maybe it’s shared experiences together now that you guys have obviously a little bit more margin, spending money on that, not being afraid to spend money on that if that’s what means most to you. But if a car doesn’t mean a whole lot to you, then dial it down. Like you know what I mean? And find those things that really aren’t that important at the end of the day to you and really challenging yourself to think through those, each of those individually. So what do you say in response to, you know, some of the typical objections to the Dave Ramsey baby steps, right? So things like, you know, often only having $1,000 in emergency fund until you’re fully out of debt, and is that realistic, is that prudent. is that wise, you know, not to have a full 3-6 months? Or not establishing credit or building credit? Delaying retirement savings, perhaps? So what do you say? And I know your journey’s a little bit different because it was a shorter time period of 17 months, and I think where some of those challenges come in, especially on delayed retirement and emergency savings, is when you’re stretching it out say 5, 6, 7, 8, 10, 15 years. But talk to us through how you all reconciled that that was the method, the steps, the path that was best for you and your plan.

Levi Ellison: I would say first off, if you’re going to follow the Dave Ramsey plan, you can’t be Dave-ish. You have to either do it or don’t. And so we decided we were going to do it, and we were going to be gazelle-intense, as he likes to say. We’re running away on the plain from the cheetah, and we’re going to make it. And so we did. And as far as like the emergency fund, that’s a temporary emergency fund of $1,000. We now have 6 months of expenses and with a very real coronavirus running around right now, that makes us feel better. I mean, it truly does. And so to have to owe no debt to anybody and to be as prepared as you can be for a crisis like this or a pandemic to not want to be fear-mongering, but we feel good about that piece of our plan. And pausing retirement for 17 months, I mean, the stock market just lost the biggest loss in 30 years. I guess I think we’re OK for now. You know, it’s not like we’re not going to buy a house. It’s not like we’re not going to ever fully fund our emergency fund, those types of things. It’s quick. I mean, if you’re going to do it, you need to do it. And so for us, we knew each other well enough, we were in the same study group, we were very good friends before we got married or even started dating. And so I knew her, she knew me, we both knew if we said we were going to do something, we were going to do it. And so we just had that resolve. That’s kind of the way it went for us. But as far as like credit goes, we have a goal of having no credit. And that may sound crazy to a lot of people, but you actually don’t need it. I went down to my local bank, said, “Hey, is this going to be a problem if we have no credit?” And they said, “No.” And so it’s almost laughable how the way people think that you have to have a credit score. You don’t. I’ve rented plenty of cars without a credit card. I’ve done all the things that you need to do. I’ve booked a $12,000 cruise celebrating getting out of debt, and it got canceled because it was the Grand Princess that was quarantined off the coast of California.

Tim Ulbrich: Oh my gosh.

Levi Ellison: Right. Yeah.

Tim Ulbrich: Oh my gosh.

Levi Ellison: So there’s that. And that’s not a laughing matter, it’s a very serious thing.

Tim Ulbrich: Sure.

Levi Ellison: They’re going to reimburse us. We’re still waiting to hear back from flights, and so one thing I would change about my financial plan is buying insurance on flights.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah.

Levi Ellison: I’ve never done that before, but I will be in the future because you never know what’s happening.

Tim Ulbrich: Although what are the chances of something like COVID-19, right?

Levi Ellison: Right, right, yeah. That’s what I said.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah. So one of the things too that I heard there and I think often doesn’t get talked about, whether it’s the Ramsey framework or something like the Compass Money Map framework or another framework, I think a framework is very helpful, especially when you have multiple competing priorities that you’re trying to work through, debt repayment, retirement savings, emergency funds, and you’re looking at a way for two people to get on the same page. I think sometimes it’s a little bit more difficult if it’s one person’s idea and I want this other person to implement it, but I think sometimes a framework is a nice third party that gives you both an idea of something you can work towards together and hopefully have those shared goals. Last question I have for you is here you are now on the backside of this, and I think we often don’t talk about life after paying off debt. And what was $12,600 a month going towards student loans is no longer is no longer going towards student loans.

Levi Ellison: Right.

Tim Ulbrich: So what is the game plan now? What are the goals? And how have you adjusted to loosen up some of those things like hey, it’s OK to go out to eat, you know, every once in awhile, and it’s OK to enjoy those things. So talk to us a little bit about life after having the debt paid off.

Levi Ellison: Right, so this is a whole goal, right?

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah.

Levi Ellison: You don’t want to live below the federal poverty limit for 17 months and continue that until I retire. It’s not — that wasn’t the plan, so it’s exciting to be here and to like the cruise thing, we were spending $12,000 a month on loans and repaying that. We can book a $12,000 cruise, and it was going to be a really nice one, 11 days.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, yep.

Levi Ellison: And those things will work out in the future, and so we plan to take some trips. We want to go to Washington, D.C., want to tour the Capitol, do all the things that we wanted to do while we were in debt. And things, as far as having a framework, you are nailing it there. It is so important to have a plan. And so what we decided to do was to come up with like an annual budget. I know that sounds a little crazy for a household, but we have a year’s worth of plans and just kind of rough estimates, this isn’t as intense as our allocated spending plan as far as I know where every single penny is going. But we have plans in place to get us both vehicles, to have a certain amount of money in place to put a down payment on a home if we don’t end up paying cash for a home, which we might do. It depends on some different circumstances here at home, but having that annual plan in place I think is really going to help us, it’s already informing our decisions as far as when we get this money back from the cruise, what are we going to do with that, are we just going to go blow it anyway because it’s like it’s already gone or are we going to put and speed up the plan as far as well, if we go ahead and do this, we can get me a truck before summer, we can get her an SUV or whatever we want to do, which is a much more fun conversation than, ‘OK, it’s Friday again. Man, was that only two weeks ago that we paid $6,000? OK, here we go again.’

Tim Ulbrich: Another Redbox.

Levi Ellison: Push submit. Yeah, again at Redbox this week, that sort of thing. So it’s exciting to be able to talk about what we’re going to do with it versus we know exactly what we’re going to do with it.

Tim Ulbrich: And you know what I love, Levi, I know my wife Jess and I felt this, I sense the same for you and also a Jess is that when you are so used to grinding it out, I mean, $12,600 a month, for a 17-month period, it’s hard to measure, but there is such a long-term benefit of that beyond the 17 months. You know, yes, you’re going to loosen up the reins, yes, that’s OK, you guys should do that, you should enjoy it. And there’s balance and all that. But you’ve shifted that perspective on what really is important and where happiness does and does not come from. And I think that has such a long-term benefit beyond that 17-month period of how you’re utilizing your money. And I love that for you guys, I know you guys are teaching some of this now with Financial Peace, obviously giving is still a priority and really giving back and sharing some of that as you are doing here on the podcast as well. So really excited to see where this goes for you all and the impact you’re able to have on others because of obviously the margin that you have now to work with and the ability to share that. So thank you for coming on the show, thank you for taking time to share your journey. Congratulations. It’s really, really an incredible journey. And excited that you were willing to come on and share it with our community.

Levi Ellison: You’re very welcome. I enjoyed it.

Tim Ulbrich: Thank you.

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Debt Free: How One Couple Overcame Hardship to Pay Off $150,000

Betsy and Casey Hoida join Tim Ulbrich to talk about their debt free journey paying off $150,000 of student loan debt, why and how Betsy left her secure pharmacy job after completing residency and getting board certification and how they managed to work together to get on the same page financially despite some highs and lows along the way.

About Today’s Guests

Betsy and Casey Hoida reside in Green Bay, WI with their two daughters, Mollie and Claire. The couple both obtained their PharmD from Ferris State University in 2006.

Casey is a home infusion and hospice/palliative care pharmacist. He has been working in the field of home infusion for 10 years. Casey specializes in infusions involving antibiotics, anti-fungals, TPN, chemotherapy, PCA, inotropic, immunoglobulin and other biologic drugs. His future plans involve continuing to expand biological services with in the pharmacy as well as introducing MTM services to his patients. Outside of work Casey’s interest in personal finance continues to grow and he plans on pursuing opportunities in fee for service based financial planning.

Betsy has a diverse clinical pharmacy background with experience in a multitude of practice settings. In December of 2017, she left her traditional hospital clinical pharmacist role to take on the position of CEO of the Hoida Household. Currently, she staffs part time in a compounding pharmacy and is obtaining a certification as a Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) Specialist with the hopes of using her entrepreneurial spirit to start a consulting business this fall.

Together they paid off $150,000 of debt in 6 years.

Summary

Betsy and Casey Hoida share their journey of paying off $150,000 of student loan debt. They both received their PharmD from Ferris State University in 2006 and have since had diverse careers. After graduating, Betsy worked for a year and then completed residency. In 2017, Betsy realized she was burned out and needed to step away from a traditional pharmacy career. Currently, she staffs part time in a compounding pharmacy and is obtaining a certification as a Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) Specialist with the hopes of using her entrepreneurial spirit to start a consulting business this fall. Casey had a retail pharmacist internship and worked for a retail company for a year after graduating. He took Betsy’s long-term care position and fell in love with the infusion portion of pharmacy. He currently works as a home infusion and hospice/palliative care pharmacist and has been working in the field of home infusion for 10 years.

Casey explains that when they graduated, the market for pharmacists was hot. He knew that they carried student loan debt, the majority being his, but he wasn’t worried about finding a job and having a good salary to begin paying it off. Casey took the lead on managing their finances and the couple began moving on paying off their debt. They did two things from the beginning to help them learn how to live off of less; automatically maxing out their 401(k) so they didn’t see the amount on their check and making the shift to living off of one salary.

Betsy explains that the driving force on their mission of becoming debt free stems from not wanting to feel trapped. Casey shares that he was raised to avoid debt, to pay it back quickly if you’re in it and to save. While in the process of paying debt off, he got to the point where he didn’t want to be owned by someone else for the debts he had.

Casey explains that in order to pay off the $150,000 of debt in 6 years, they had to become really intentional with their money and, most importantly, get on the same page. The first year that they were paying it off, they didn’t have a mortgage and used the extra money to chip away at it faster. They continued to remain mindful of their budget and made short term goals (six months or a year). They used overtime earnings and any extra income to go to paying off their student loans. Now that their student loans are paid off, they are so much more relaxed.

Betsy and Casey also discuss why and how Betsy left her secure pharmacy job after completing residency and getting board certification and how they managed to work together to get on the same page financially despite some highs and lows along the way.

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Episode Transcript

Tim Ulbrich: Hey, what’s up, everybody? Welcome to this week’s episode of the Your Financial Pharmacist podcast. I know I say this often, but I mean it sincerely each and every time, and this week is no exception. We have a great episode for you where I’m going to talk with Betsy and Casey Hoida. We’re going to talk about their financial journey. Yes, we’re going to talk about the student loan debt that they paid off. But more than that, we’re going to talk about life, how did they manage this topic together, what does this mean for their future, and we’re going to talk about the impact and how they translate their finances and connecting that with their career. So Betsy and Casey, thank you for your time and welcome to the Your Financial Pharmacist podcast.

Casey Hoida: Thank you. Thank you for having us.

Betsy Hoida: Yeah, we’re super excited. Big fan.

Tim Ulbrich: I am excited. Thank you. We’ve been meaning to record this for some time, and here we are. And before we jump into the interview, I want to read briefly, Betsy, you had sent me an email about a month or so ago, and I think it’s going to help frame our conversation as it gives a little bit of background in your story and then certainly I’m going to ask you to build off of that. So you said, “Hi there. My husband and I love the show. I actually became addicted, and he listens from time to time as well. We’re both pharmacists, but I recently left the profession in search of something else. Not sure what. We’ve had a long but inspirational journey, currently debt-free, minus our mortgage.” So I want to talk about that journey, and before doing so, congratulations on being debt-free except your mortgage. That certainly is no small feat, and I want to talk a little bit about how you did that. So Betsy, let’s start with you. Take us back to your story, your financial journey. You graduate from pharmacy school at Ferris State, and tell us a little bit about your career path, what you did after graduation, and tell us a little bit about your student debt situation and how you viewed this topic of money.

Betsy Hoida: Sure. So I graduated in 2006, and I decided to work initially community pharmacy and then changed my mind last-minute because I had heard about a job in long-term care. So I took that position. I worked for a year, and then I decided to go back and do a residency. At that point, Casey had kind of taken over our debt together. So I really, I didn’t even know what my student loans were, to be honest with you. So I did a residency in our first year of marriage, which was interesting.

Tim Ulbrich: I did that as well. It’s challenging, right?

Betsy Hoida: Yes, it was very challenging. But we weren’t even to the real challenges in life yet like kids and so on. But anyways, to get back to my background, then I decided that we were ready to have kids. I guess we decided, not I decided.

Casey Hoida: It takes two people.

Betsy Hoida: Right. To move back home, which was the UP, but we didn’t want to move back home, so we chose Green Bay, Wisconsin. And I got us both jobs up here. I’m a networker, so at a residency conference, I kind of found about Aurora and got us both jobs up here. And my journey since then has kind of been finding out really what I wanted in the profession and also balancing being a mom, which was really hard for me married to a pharmacist as well.

Tim Ulbrich: And we’re going to come back to that because what really stood out to me when you and I had talked prior to the interview, Betsy, is that as I look at your career path, you know, PGY1 residency, board certification, you were involved in lots of different clinical services, you served as the residency program director, I mean that often for many is really viewed as kind of the premier career path into clinical pharmacy residency training, board certified and so forth. But you ultimately made a decision to pick up and walk away from that, and it’s a little bit of a teaser for our listeners, but we’re going to come back and talk about why. And we’ll talk about the impact of that obviously financially as well. So Casey, before we go into more of that, tell us a little bit about your background after graduating from Ferris State and some of the work that you’re doing now and how you got into that career path.

Casey Hoida: Sure, yeah. I graduated in 2006 also and at that time, we were one of the — not newest classes of PharmDs, but it was fairly new. So we had all this clinical knowledge and were ready to use it. And in pharmacy school, in doing my internship, I was in retail. And so I guess it just kind of made sense that I continued on there once I graduated. So I worked for a company for about a year, and then our career paths, Betsy and I, kind of intertwined here. When she left the long-term care facility to pursue a residency, I actually took her position, and that’s how I got into long-term care. To tell you how I got to where I am now, in long-term care, there was a small IV pharmacy department, and the pharmacist, who was a little bit older than me who was kind of running it didn’t really enjoy, didn’t care much for it. I said, “Oh, wow, this looks interesting.” Potential for me to use more of my clinical knowledge, and so I jumped in and just really kind of fell in love with the infusion portion of pharmacy. And so when we decided to make the move to Wisconsin, as Betsy stated, she was kind enough to find me a position. I didn’t even have to look. And it was for a home infusion position. And I had very limited experience, I interviewed for it, was asked a lot of clinical questions by my director, and he knew that I didn’t have a lot of experience but liked me and thought that I was going to be a good fit and gave me that opportunity to get into a portion of pharmacy that not a lot of people know about, a practice setting that’s not very familiar to many people. And I’ve been there for 10 years now, and I really, really enjoy it.

Tim Ulbrich: So to our listeners, if anybody needs a job or is currently looking for a job, we’ve learned that Betsy is the networker.

Betsy Hoida: You got it!

Tim Ulbrich: So she can help open up those doors. And I love that career path story, though. You know, in terms of the two of you working together. But Casey also kind of finding yourself in somewhat of a “nontraditional” career path, despite not doing residency and other things. But I think that speaks to the value and the power of networking and connections and certainly leaning on your wife where appropriate. So that’s exciting. So I want to hear about the two of you, you graduated from pharmacy school, you’ve got student loan debt, we still are in the time period where the job market’s pretty good, 2006-2007. Obviously, you’re facing somewhat of a significant indebtedness load. And one of the common things that I see among pharmacists, myself included, is there’s this tendency of, hey, I’m going to make great money or I do make great money, I’m not really worried about it. So let’s focus on buying a home and doing these other things. And then all of a sudden, you end up in a position where you feel like, wow, this is a little bit more stressful and we feel more pinched than we thought we would. So did you both have the stress as it related to student loans? Were you worried about it? Were you not worried about it? What was your perspective coming out financially. And let’s start, Betsy, if you want to talk about that.

Betsy Hoida: No. I did not. Because like I said, Casey naturally is great at finances. And I just let him have control over it. I didn’t even pay attention. That sounds horrible. It really does. But you know, that was his gift. And we bought our first house, we didn’t know what we were doing, and yeah. Do you have anything to add to that?

Casey Hoida: Yeah, you know, the first thing that I want to point out just kind of for the listeners is we were really in a different position back then when we graduated in 2006, like you said. It was — the pharmacy market was hot, there was money flowing everywhere, sign-on bonuses and stuff. And so yes, we had this student loan debt, but I wasn’t worried about finding a job and getting a top-end salary. So today, from what I know, that’s a lot different. Kids that are coming out —

Betsy Hoida: Kids.

Casey Hoida: Yeah, I say kids.

Tim Ulbrich: Those kids.

Casey Hoida: Yeah, professionals are coming out from pharmacy school, and the job market is a lot different. And salaries potentially are a lot different than what they used to be. So with that being said, yeah, I was concerned about our debt. I knew that a majority of it was mine, so there was a personal aspect of it that I brought a majority of the debt to our marriage. And I felt more responsible for it, and so it was a worry and it was something that I wanted to address right away. I didn’t want to, you know, utilize it for tax purposes for 20 or 30 years like some people think. So I was definitely on it from the beginning.

Betsy Hoida: We talked about that for awhile. But I wanted to go back, Casey, you talked about us always living on one income.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, go ahead. I’d love to hear about that because I think that’s something we’re seeing with graduates today where, you know, expenses go up to the income right away. Or you have two pharmacists or not even two pharmacists, but people that are able to live off of less than they make, whether that’s one income or just a lesser percentage, obviously put themselves in a position to be able to achieve all their goals that they want to achieve but also that you never know what life’s going to throw at you for a variety of reasons. So it gives you margin and flexibility. So I’d love to hear how you made that decision and why you made that decision because that’s a very intentional choice.

Casey Hoida: Yeah. I think there were two things that we did, and I had thought about this in the past and I couldn’t come up with anyone who might have mentioned this to us, so I’m going to take credit for it or Betsy and I can both take credit for it.

Betsy Hoida: No, totally you.

Casey Hoida: The first thing that we decided to do when we graduated and took our first job is we were going to — and we did — automatically max out of 401k’s. And the reason behind that is we wanted to start saving for retirement right away. And we didn’t want to know what our paycheck looked like when we weren’t contributing to retirement. And so you know, there’s pros and cons to that, but that was one thing that we did. And then the other thing that we did and being mindful about it is we knew that at some point in time, we were going to have kids and who knows what the future holds besides kids? And we wanted to be able to live off of just one salary. So when we were looking at purchasing vehicles and buying a home and a majority of our financial decisions were based on can we do this on one salary? And that’s something we’ve lived by since the beginning.

Tim Ulbrich: Such wisdom there. I hope our listeners caught on and especially the students and those transitioning post-graduation, I mean, the two themes that I really heard there were obviously living off of less than you make, which just has so many benefits in so many different areas — and we’re going to come back and talk to those, about those, here in a little bit as we talk about Betsy’s career transition — but also automation. Automation, automation, automation. And you talked about it in the context of retirement. We’ve talked about it before, Episode 057, we talked about automating your financial plan. But if you can put those automation principles in place as early as possible, you’re less likely to feel like you’re missing it. And obviously, that has a significant compound effect over time in whatever goal that you’re trying to achieve. So what I want to talk about here for a minute, before we talk about the specifics of how you paid off the debt — because I think that’s important. We often focus stories on this podcast where we talk about big numbers and short periods of time. But often, we may not necessarily talk about how you exactly did it, and that’s certainly the piece that listeners want to know. But first, I want to talk about this topic even matters to the two of you. So here, we’re getting into the concept of identifying and finding your financial why. What’s the purpose? What’s the vision? What’s the direction when it comes to the finances? Why do you want to become debt-free? Why do you want to save for the future? Why do you want to do all of the things that we talk about on this show? And that could be different for every person. But having that financial why is incredibly important to being able to have that motivation to achieve your financial goals. So I know this is a big, loaded question, but Betsy, when I say that concept of kind of finding your financial why and why does this topic of money even matter, what comes to mind for you first?

Betsy Hoida: Freedom. Just finding out I was not happy where I was. And you know, that could be a number of things. We have children. I was trying to do everything, but I think the biggest thing is I was not using my gifts to — I’m going to give a shoutout to Alex Barker with his book “Indispensable.” I’ve been following him, and my career path or personality is very similar to him, and I think I felt trapped. I know that there’s something for me, and I really want that freedom to be able to explore that. So that’s my why.

Tim Ulbrich: Love that. Freedom and trapped are two words that really start out to me there. Casey, how about you?

Casey Hoida: Well, for me, it goes back to kind of how I was raised. I was raised that you try to avoid or you don’t owe people money. And if you do, you pay them back. And you save. And that was initially my motivation is that’s how I was raised, and that’s how I viewed money. But as I got older and as I gained more experience, I’d have to kind of reiterate what Betsy has already said is that you get to a point in your life where you just don’t want to be owned by anyone. And carrying debt and having all of these payments to make keeps one working and indebted to the system. And we just got tired of doing that. And so we want to have a future that allows us to follow our passions and to just kind of go where we feel like we’re being led.

Tim Ulbrich: That’s awesome, and that obviously directly plays into why you decided to get the student loan debt off your back. So Casey, talk to me for a little bit about, you know, $150,000 roughly of student loan debt, we’re talking about approximately six years, give or take a little bit of time, that certainly is not a plan where you’re just wandering in 10, 15, 20 years. There’s some intentionality in getting those paid off in a relatively short period of time. So how did you guys practically do it? Month-to-month, year-to-year, how were you able to pay off that amount of debt in a relatively short period of time?

Casey Hoida: Well, we first of all just sat down at one point in time — although we weren’t as serious as we are now — but we sat down, we got the number, we looked at it, we were both on the same page that we didn’t like it and we didn’t want it. And so obviously then the next step is how to go about it. And you know, the first couple years in our marriage, we didn’t have kids. So, and I think —

Betsy Hoida: Yeah, we did.

Casey Hoida: I think the first year — well, not right away, did we? Anyways, the first year, we didn’t have a home and so we had some extra income because we were living off of one to really start pounding away at that debt. And so initially, it kind of went fast. Like we were seeing gains month-to-month, year-to-year. And we’re like, oh wow, this is great. And then you add on a true mortgage, not a rental, and you add on some kids and expenses, vehicles and different things, and it starts to slow down. And so I guess what we really did is we just, we remained mindful that it was there, and we made short-term goals, whether that was six months or a year. And we said, OK, well, here’s the number where it’s at right now, and here’s where we want to be in six months or in a year. And so any overtime that was worked or any extra money that we would get from tax returns or anything like that, it all went to the mortgage — or excuse me, to the student loans — which isn’t fun, but it does decrease that number a lot quicker than just making the minimal payment.

Betsy Hoida: I’d like to jump in here, Tim, and say those were Casey’s thoughts. Honestly, honestly, I mean, I think I talked to you about where we hit a fall.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah.

Betsy Hoida: I was — again, I told you, I wasn’t happy. I couldn’t pinpoint why. So I thought you know what, let’s move into a much bigger house. And let’s just live the ways of the world, this is going to make me happy. Which I was wrong. Spoiler alert. And what had ended up happening was I had after surgery, lost my job. And that was my wakeup call. And at this point — I’m just going to be open and honest here —

Tim Ulbrich: Appreciate it.

Betsy Hoida: That our marriage had hit a low point. And we’d signed up at church for this thing called Marriage Bootcamp. Little did we know that it was actually Financial Peace University. So I put it aside, we’re not doing this, until that low point. And I pulled it out, and I was like, wow, we need to start paying attention to this. Duh. I mean, Casey already was. But I really like how as a team, he is definitely the nerd, and I’m the free spirit. And I’m the one who was finally like, you know what? We have x amount of dollars to pay on this student loan. I know you love the security, but let’s just write the check. Let’s do it. And because I think we had identified that security is so important for both of us, so we did. And on top of that, we really hit the budget in that I wanted to see the numbers. That’s where I started listening to you, I started listening to Dave Ramsey, I just — I didn’t become obsessed, but kind of. I had to because I didn’t know anything about it. And our spending was very intentional.

Tim Ulbrich: So you were a free spirit with a little bit of a conversion to a nerd, you know, right? Along the way. So yeah, and I want to talk about that because I appreciate you sharing honestly some of the back story. And for those listeners that haven’t heard of the nerd-free spirit, that comes from Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. It talks about money personalities, and we tend to fall at different degrees in one of those two buckets, so a nerd or a free spirit. The terms are pretty self-explanatory when it comes to how we manage our finances. But to me, what I love about in hearing your journey is that neither one of those for anybody is right or wrong. It’s a matter of identifying which of those do you tend more towards and how can you effectively work together, especially if you tend not to approach it in the same way. I would even argue for Jess and I, it’s a blessing that we don’t approach this topic in the same way.

Betsy Hoida: Amen.

Tim Ulbrich: Because I think if we were both nerds or we were both free spirits, we may be down a very different path. And I am very appreciative of what she brings to the financial table for us and really helps me look at it in a much different and healthier way, then collectively, we’re able to help each other. So to that point, though, I think often with the nerd-free spirit mindset, there can be tension in that. And so talk to me a little bit more, Casey, about how you were able to navigate that. You know, it sounds like certainly there was some pain there, which necessitated the two of you getting on the same page. But often, I hear from people that say, ‘Hey, I’d really love to dig into this topic, but I feel like I may not be able to get my spouse or my significant other on board. So what worked and didn’t work for you in terms of the two of you getting on the same page financially? Casey, let’s start.

Casey Hoida: Well, I can tell you what didn’t work. And it was trying to impose my financial will on my wife, to simply say, “This is what we’re doing. And this is how we’re going to do it.”

Betsy Hoida: That’s never worked.

Casey Hoida: No.

Betsy Hoida: On anything.

Casey Hoida: And it hasn’t really worked for much of anything, correct.

Tim Ulbrich: She’s a true free spirit, yes.

Casey Hoida: Yes, yes. I mean, you know, I won’t speak for Betsy on this, but one, for her, it helped when she truly became interested in our finances and took ownership on her end. And that’s what I’ll say about that, but then that allowed us to really sit down and one, just have a conversation, what is important to us financially? And what I mean by that is savings, retirement, college funds.

Betsy Hoida: Giving.
Casey Hoida: Giving, yeah, yes, definitely. Giving and mortgage and everything else. And so first, we had to identify what was important to each of us because that, I feel, is important knowledge to have before you can actually put together a —

Betsy Hoida: Cohesive plan.

Casey Hoida: Cohesive plan. And see how wonderful she is at finishing my sentences? Awesome. And so that’s basically it. First, it’s just communication with each other. And then it honestly just started to fall into place. I mean, we would have monthly financial meetings, budget meetings.

Betsy Hoida: They could be heated.
Casey Hoida: They were heated at first, and then they — as we continued on in them because you need to gain experience, they were less heated and they were more productive, and we really started to gain traction at that point in time.

Tim Ulbrich: So Betsy, let me ask — to follow-up on that — ask it this way. I often will talk with people and they may say, ‘Hey, I’m really having a hard time getting my spouse or significant other on board,’ as I mentioned. So from your perspective where maybe Casey was all ready to go and obviously, again, there was pain there that helped to necessitate this, but what advice would you give to those nerds out there of how to effectively engage a significant other that may be more of the free spirit mindset? What works? And what doesn’t work?

Betsy Hoida: So I would approach it as just as, you know, marriage. You keep your side of the street clean, and you know, money is attached to emotion. So really hearing what the other person has to say. And that means sitting down, not duking it out, but you know what I mean. Like we’re going to sit here, and we’re going to get this figured out. And a lot of times, it’s shutting my mouth and listening.

Tim Ulbrich: And building off of that too, going back to what I heard you guys saying your why is that I often will encourage couples — and I’m speaking here out of things I wish I would have done differently and what it took for Jess and I to get on the same page, but if you can start with the why and start with the dream and start with the goals, these month-by-month conversations — I’ll never say easy — but become a little bit easier because you agree on the vision and where you’re going. But if it’s not a shared vision, then I think that month-to-month can be somewhat combative, people shut down, and then you’re certainly resetting the clock. So again, keeping that why and keeping that vision in mind. So the reason I wanted to talk first about the paying off of the student loans and how you guys worked together is because I think that directly relates to, Betsy, to the decision you made that you were kind of unhappy with work, family priorities, prioritizing your marriage, and making the decision to walk away from that and being in the position to do so is really what I want to talk about here. So talk us through for a minute, you know, where were you in terms of just work, you know, externally, people may look at that and say, ‘Hey, you’ve got residency training. You’re board certified. You’ve got a ‘good job.’’ So what was not going well? What wasn’t working? And what was going on that led to you to the decision to say, ‘You know what, I need to walk away and take a break from this.’

Betsy Hoida: First, people thought I was crazy, like you said. But it turned into my health was not — it was slowly going down the drain, I was not taking care of myself, we have a child with special needs, I couldn’t sleep at night, my hair was falling out, I had lost a significant amount of weight. It got to the point of I can’t do this anymore. I can’t do this anymore. I need a break. And that was really hard. And it’s still really hard, I’m not going to lie, being at home and finding out my why. But you know, I’m still working on the board certification stuff. But it’s slowly coming together, and I have a belief that if I keep this path, it’s going to lead me to something. I know it is. I listen to your show, and I’m so inspired. Listening to other pharmapreneurs talking about their journeys is so powerful. And that just kind of keeps me motivated.

Tim Ulbrich: When we had talked a couple weeks ago, Betsy, I took some notes. And you had mentioned that you felt like you were in a crazy cycle. You felt like you had “lost me.” And you felt like you were burned out. And you know, there certainly were physical things that you mentioned there, but I think that many people listening may feel some of that, and they start to see the impact of relationship with family or kids, and what I want to highlight here is the importance of the financial piece to allow yourself to make an alternative decision if you find yourself in that place. And that’s why I love the work that Alex Barker’s doing, his book “Indispensable,” and to me, there’s so much synergy here between finding a fulfilling career and making sure you have yourself in a financial position that allows you to make some of those bold decisions. And sometimes, that is a different full-time job, sometimes that’s working part-time to be with family, sometimes that’s pursuing an entrepreneurial dream. Sometimes, that’s traveling the world for a year and taking the year off like Nick Ornella did that we featured on the podcast.

Betsy Hoida: Yeah.

Tim Ulbrich: I mean, it can look many different ways depending on your why, but the point is you put yourself in a position to do that. And so talk me through, I would assume there was a significant amount of fear there when you made that decision. I’d love to hear from both of you here. But did you put some markers in place to say, hey, before we do this, we want to be out of debt, we want to have a fully funded emergency fund, we want to be here, here, and here? Or were things just at such a point that you said, you know, overall, we’re OK and we’re just going to move on and we’re going to figure it out. So talk me through how you figured out where that place was financially where you could make that jump.

Casey Hoida: Sure. The funny thing is that we were at a financial point where we could do it immediately. We had our emergency fund, the student loans were paid off at that time, we had moved on to paying off our mortgage and were making good strides there. We had no other debt, and yet it terrified — I’ll speak for me, I won’t say us. Betsy will probably agree, but it terrified me for her to stop working.

Betsy Hoida: Oh my gosh, yes.

Casey Hoida: Because we — it was multiple things. One, it was oh, we’re going to lose all of this income and we’re making such great strides on the mortgage and we’re putting additional away in savings, and I don’t want to lose that. But after stepping back and looking back at what our life had become, just a rat race of who’s going to pick up the kids this time, who’s going to — I have to be here to exchange them or I’m going to go to this meeting or whatever the case is. It’s just we were trading off our kids and our lives so each of us could work full-time. And it just got to the point, like Betsy said, where her health was being affected. Mentally, I was exhausted. And I guess —

Betsy Hoida: Or our children. What are we showing our children? You know?

Casey Hoida: Yeah. It just got to the point that we couldn’t take it anymore. And I wish there was something more magical than that. It just got to the point where it had to break. And so we had to say, OK, Betsy — it was best for Betsy to stop working as I carried the insurance and some other things. And so it was best for Betsy to say, I need to step away and take care of myself and take care of my family. And so that’s what we decided to do.

Betsy Hoida: Yeah, best decision. It was terrifying. We had summer coming up. And it’s quality of life as well, you know? Life is short.

Tim Ulbrich: So Betsy, how would you describe, you know, if we used words before like “crazy,” “psycho,” “lost yourself,” and you were burned out, physically, emotionally, etc., like how would you describe it now? I mean, give me some of the words that you would use after you made that decision, what that’s meant for you as a parent, you as a wife, and your family and what would you use to describe that?

Betsy Hoida: I would say I am so much more relaxed. I really, I am. And realize you just day-by-day, day-by-day. I don’t know the future. And we recently had a flood. That would have sent us both into a tailspin, and I’m not going to lie, it was not the greatest waking up in the morning and being ankle deep in water. But we’re able to handle that. And I think, you know, just being I’m at home during the day, so I can handle that kind of stuff and just the nitty gritty details of recovering from the flood.

Tim Ulbrich: And let’s not forget to add that Casey had flood insurance policies in place lined up.

Betsy Hoida: Oh, yeah. So smart. People in this area were shocked because we got hit really hard.

Tim Ulbrich: That’s awesome, and I asked you too because I think I said, “Hey, are you guys in a flood zone?” And you had said no but had that policy in place. So great work, Casey. We talk about building a financial foundation and having a plan to protect your income in emergencies and all those things, and certainly just as important as debt repayment and investing and some of the other things that we talk about on the show. So Betsy, the last question I want to ask you about in terms of this transition away from work is talk to me about the fear of missing out, the FOMO, because I feel like that’s real in pharmacy. It’s real in any profession, but I think for whatever reason, moreso in pharmacy. So again, here you are, board-certified, you’re still working on those very tedious, long board certification exams, right? Residency trained, you’ve had a great career as running out since 2006, but you know, I’m sure you’re having these questions of what does this mean long-term? Am I going to re-enter? Am I going to forget things? Am I going to stay relevant? Am I going to be employable if I want to go back? So is that something you’re still struggling with, the fear of missing out? Or is that something that you’re able to get over quickly as you realize the benefits of the decision that you made?

Betsy Hoida: Honestly, it terrified me until recently where I realized that I’m not going to go back. I really, really believe that there’s something else — I am currently working three hours at a compounding pharmacy, and I’m really interested in bioidentical hormone replacement therapy and care of women around mid-life in that area and also just integrative health, that there’s other areas than just the current board-certification, the stuff I’m learning there, that there’s just more out there. There’s way more out there, that’s what I’m so excited about. And I don’t have to. And I don’t have to know today.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, and again, just a shoutout to Alex Barker, the Happy PharmD. For those of you that are looking for something else, he’s doing great work over there, and I think he’s really helping people that are working through situations like what you have talked about. So I want to talk about kids for a minute because, you know, as I hear your story and obviously as a father of three young kids, soon to be four, one of the things that gets me so fired up about this topic is that you guys have put yourself in an awesome position in terms of what you’re teaching your kids, what you’re role modeling, but also what the legacy will be of your family going forward. You’ve become debt-free, you’re working hard to teach them financial principles, you’ve prioritized the time with the family. So the question I have here, which is sort of a loaded question, is you know, knowing you have 6 and 9, is that correct, how old your children are?

Betsy Hoida: Yep.

Tim Ulbrich: OK. Knowing you have kids that are 6 and 9, you know, when they’re grown adults, you know, how do you want them to talk about you guys? What is the legacy that you want to leave in terms of financially and how you’re raising your family and how you’re maybe changing that generation for them going forward?

Casey Hoida: I always thought initially what I wanted for my kids from a financial standpoint is just to have a big pile of money for them when they get older so life won’t be so hard for them. And that was years ago, even semi-recently, that was my thought. And then I started just doing some more searching and thinking. And you know, that’s not the answer. That is not the answer at all is just having money sitting somewhere. That doesn’t teach anyone anything. And so I guess what I’m looking at now is to teach my kids the danger of money and what the love of it can do to you, to your life, to your relationships, and how to hopefully avoid that in their lifetime. That’s the biggest thing, really, is I want them to not be ruled by money because it can put you into a life that is not at all what is going to make you happy.

Tim Ulbrich: Absolutely. And Betsy, talk me through a little bit about what you guys are doing to role model this. I know you’re beginning to do some more of this, but in terms of teaching your kids about money. I know that’s something that my wife and I talk a lot about, we struggle with at times, you know, how can we teach them about this topic that is so big and so important but also make it relevant at where, the ages of where our kids are? So how are you guys approaching the concept of money and teaching that to your children?

Betsy Hoida: Absolutely. I just was emotional for a second about that when he was talking about for me, when you’re giving up — you know, there’s quality time. The time that I’ve been able to spend with them is irreplaceable. And being around for them, they love it. I mean, you know, I’m able to pick them up from school and just invest more in them. But to get back to your question, we are just at that point where we’re starting to teach them. And our oldest is really grasping the fact that — well, she wants all the things. But no, Molly, we’re going to teach you about having a savings account, a spending account, and a giving account. And same with Claire. And I think Dave Ramsey has a program that we can look at, but I kind of, I stole my neighbor’s plan. She does a great job. She is an accountant.

Casey Hoida: I just want to add, I mean, some of the practical things that we’re doing is the girls see us having our financial meeting each month. And they know that it’s occurring, so they’re seeing that. Betsy and I are very mindful when we’re at the store with them that we don’t make just knee-jerk purchases or anything like that. If it’s something that is above a certain dollar amount, I don’t know, I’ll just say $100 — not that that’s our number — but that we have a discussion about it and we’re like, no, we need to save for this and put money away until we have it. We don’t just grab a credit card and buy it that day. Instant gratification, we talk a lot about that in regards to finances. And so along with —

Betsy Hoida: The cars we drive.

Casey Hoida: Yeah, just showing them. We don’t go out to eat all the time, and when we do, we build it up as something special and a treat and not just something you do all the time. Our vehicles are quite old and, you know, just things like that. We’re just very, very mindful about how we talk about money in front of the girls and then what we do with our money in front of them.

Tim Ulbrich: And every single one of those things matters and it has cumulative, compound effects over time. And you know, I can’t remember if I’ve shared this story on the podcast or not, but I can vividly remember — and a shoutout to my parents for this — vividly remember sitting at my kitchen table, probably as early as 7 or 8 years old and getting a weekly allowance and having some of it allocated to savings, some of it allocated to spending, some of that allocated to giving. It might have been dividing up $2 or $3, but it doesn’t matter. You know, eventually that’s going to be $5,000 or $10,000. And those principles get ingrained over time. So whatever you define as those priorities for those of you that currently have kids or will have kids, in addition to not only teaching them those concepts of saving, spending, giving, but also just talking about this. So them seeing that you’re having these meetings, them seeing that you’re working through these issues month-by-month, hearing the discussion, and figuring out that, OK, there’s a process of saving up for something before you spend it and talk it through and not necessarily swipe it on the card, and you know, not have a discussion. So kudos to you guys, I think that’s awesome. And they are, I’m sure, absorbing way more than maybe even you necessarily intend to teach them in the moment. The last piece I want to end up on here is giving. And I know when you and I had talked prior to this recording, you know, as we were talking about kind of a financial why and why does this matter, I had sensed some more philanthropic giving aspirations. And I think you all are in a great position to make this a priority of your financial plan going forward, and it is a hope I have for the YFP community that once you have your own financial foundation and personal finances in place, you’re in a great position to help in many capacities, whether that be with church, local communities, family, anybody that may be in need. And so talk to me about giving for you guys, philosophically how you feel about it and where it fits into your financial plan. So Casey, you want to start?

Casey Hoida: Yeah. Yeah. So just a quick little backstory, so about two years ago as Betsy had indicated, when we were really struggling, we kind of renewed our faith life and became true followers of Christ. And that was a stepping stone for us in regards to giving that — how important I guess it is in one’s life to give back. We’ve received so much and have so many blessings that it’s only right, then obviously, to give a portion of that back. At first, I’ll be honest, when we would go to church, we would give a certain amount because that’s what you’re supposed to do. You’re supposed to just give some money to the church. And when I thought about it more and I thought about where that money was going and who it was helping, it changed for me. And I became more of a cheerful giver, if you will, than just checking a box like, yep, I gave some money to the church. And so I just, I don’t know, I feel that as we continue to grow in our faith life, we realized how important giving is. And I know when you and I talked a few weeks ago, something that you had mentioned and I’ve heard before about having your monthly amount that you give but then having kind of a discretionary amount set to the side for anything that is just put on your heart and you’re like, wow, now I have this money to help this individual or to help this cause or whatever. And that’s something that I had heard before. But when you had mentioned it, it kind of brought it back to the forefront for me. And I think that’s something that Betsy and I want to be more intentional about is having that discretionary money set aside for just anything that would come up. And then we’re really able to give and to help, and I think that’s important.
Betsy Hoida: Show the girls, show the girls. We had a Christmas party this year. You know, Christmas was a big point where it was a really good teaching opportunity in that they got to see we picked some families to sponsor, and they got to see the families themselves receive the presents. And we got to put together boxes to send overseas, and we got to pick out toys for children. And it was awesome. It was really great. I thought it was going to be a difficult time in Target, but they had so much fun. They really did. And —

Casey Hoida: I think they really understood what we were doing and why they were doing it, especially at what Betsy was saying, the Christmas party, where the children receiving the gifts didn’t know they were from us. It was set up a little bit differently. But the girls, our girls, were able to see those kids receive those gifts and the looks on their faces and just experience the joy of sharing, of giving, I think was prominent and right out in the forefront. And that’s what we were so happy that they were able to experience and see.

Tim Ulbrich: Yeah, and there is — as you both know, I’m sure many of our community feel the same way — I mean, there is true power in giving, obviously not only for those that are receiving but also for the giver. I think it really just shifts your mindset and how you look at the rest of the financial plan, how you spend your money, prioritization of things. And so we actually talked about that in Episode 022 of the podcast, the Power of Giving, for those that want to talk a little bit more about that and again, hopefully that’s a vision that we can continue to inspire among this community. So Betsy and Casey, you have truly inspired me. I’ve enjoyed our time together here, also in our pre-recording. When we had talked prior to the recording, I ran home and shared some of your story with my wife. I was fired up about doing this. And I am 100% confident you’re going to inspire our listeners as well. So thank you so much for coming on the show, thank you for taking the time, and thank you for your willingness to share your story. I really appreciate it.

Betsy Hoida: It was wonderful. It’s our pleasure. It was great.

Casey Hoida: Yeah, we really enjoy just sharing our story. And thank you so much for having us on. I really appreciate it.

Tim Ulbrich: Thank you both. And to the YFP community, again, we appreciate you joining us for this week’s episode of the Your Financial Pharmacist podcast. If you have not done so and you’ve liked what you heard on this show or on any other show that we record each and every week, please head on over to iTunes or whatever podcast player you get your information from each and every week. We’d love to hear your feedback. And if you could leave a review in that podcast player, that would help others recognize the show as well. Until next week, thank you again for joining. And have a great rest of your day.

 

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